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Yes you are correct things should have been thought out better. I COMPLETELY AGREE and danny he should know better and picturing a 14 year old girl with a 19 year old isnt right and it will be hard I agree with all those points but its just to late its done we cant afford to tell this man to leave her.In a world where doing the right thing is a myth the truth is we need all the dannys we can get. And yeah we dont know what the future holds for young Danny but we also dont even know if we will be here tommorow. Lets slow down and take things day by day.

Side thought: When I said we could use all the Dannys we could get I didnt mean Men who go for younger girls and I want to clarify that because I can tell by the vibe in this room It will be used agaist me later.

yep, your right voice of reason whats done is done and people shouldn't be telling him to leave her. i just think that the actual situation is just... and im sorry for saying this danny and gf, but to me its just.. kinda gross. to me a 14 and a 19 yr old just doesnt mix and yeah when shes 20, he will be 25 but why couldnt they have waited that long to have a couple kids if both of them are so mature. when your mature you know when you are able to take care of a baby and when you are mature you know when its time to have a baby and no matter what, im sorry but a 14 yr old cant make that kind of decision. i wish all the best to you both, bc this has already happened and theres not much you can do now. i just hope that you guys think of other things that may come up in your relationship with much more maturity and responsibility than you have used in this decision.

I completely agree with her ^
Danny use a little more caution in the future because being prudent and making good choices is mature and what makes you a man. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years I was 18 and she was 17 and now we live together and Im 22 and shes 21 and were expecting a baby boy in January. IT IS VERY HARD!!!!!!!! It is not easy at all. I was idealistic like you in the beginning with all that forever talk and all those 4 hour conv. on the phone but that does go away Danny its just the truth in life. I love my girl dearly but true love is admitting you and her have problems and working through the test of time. You will probably tell me your love is stronger and that it wont happen to you and I wont tell you otherwise for it is that attitude that may be the deciding factor in whether you give up or not later.

Voice of Reason, you are just awesome haha. i thought i was the only one that felt like this but im glad you agree with me totally. Im 19 just like you danny and i have been with my bf for almost 2 years. i love him very very much but we cannot afford and are just not ready to have a family let alone get married. regardless of how much i love my bf, we can definitly wait to get to that level. we wont get married or have kids until we are financially ready and stable with a good job and home. As far as Voice of Reason, follow his advice danny, he knows what he's talking about.

if shes strong.. i lived and i was 13

Hey “Voice of Reason”, where do you get off thinking that criticism (whether it be yours or mine) is something that only Americans are capable of? I’ve read your posts in other forums, and so far, I’m not impressed with your ability to pass off any REAL good info......just your personal thoughts on what you deem as important (and that ain’t much). I am giving this couple every bit of info that I know, which is more than I can say about you (again...that ain't much). Sure, Danny didn’t ask for relationship advice, but I did answer his question as well as pass on some addtl advice that he should be aware of. Whether he considers what I said *or* just blows me off is totally up to him. In the mean time, post your silly responses elsewhere such as a chat room for teenagers

I can tell by the way you write that you are not an deep thinker. No offence........People love the opportunity to bash somebody whether it be me or you Danny. People like to do this because there lives are not so great and they feel better by letting other people have it. I am not suprised im being attack and am also not surprised that the person who attacked me is a simple minded person who got offended at my advise. Why they got offended I dont know.......the advise was not for them and I mean no harm to anybody in this forum. If you disagree with me then please disregard what I write for I did not start this post nor did I ask anybody any questions. Dont waste the forums time snapping me and give this boy some much needed support.

Hello Danny Im 14 and my boyfriend is 18 and im waiting to find out if im pregnant. I think that if you love this girl and want to get married and will stick by her then this pregnancy is ok keep your heads up and dont let ANYONE bring your down. JUST DONT DO THIS GIRL WRONG!!!

Thank you for your post NaTasha, I hope everything goes well for you and your boyfriend. You never said in your post if your trying to get pregnant or that your just waiting to find out if you are, either way hope you both get the outcome you want. And if you love him, stay with him, because relationships can work no matter what age both partners are. Thank you again for that. The twins are due soon, and myself and Jen are very excited! I have to go now Jen needs me the babies are kicking, bye for now... xxx

hey Danny! i was just wondering why the doctors haven't induced your girlfriend? here in the states whenever theirs twins involved the latest that they let you go is 38 weeks because their so little room for them to grow. but it seems that if your girl is due in a couple days then the boys don't have anymore room to go. and considering the mothers age and all, its weird that they haven't put her into labor. it just sounds fishy!!!!!

To "I wonder?", hello there and thank you for your message. Well I'm not really aware of what happens in the USA with cases like this, but the doctors here told us earlier on in the pregnancy that, they were not going to give her a c-section or induce her. Unless nessecary.They have told us that they want her to have the twins vaginally. They said thats the best thing we an do. Were all fine though the babies are due in just a few days now, it's been a long and emotional pregnancy, but were glad that were finally going to be able to hold our twin boys. The doctors have also told us that my girlfriend Jen and the babies are doing perfectly fine and theres nothing major that we should worry about. So were just waiting now, I've taken 2 weeks of work so I can be by Jen's side when the babies are born and then for some time after. So we are both very happy. Thanks again. X

Danny, inducing labor means that they bring on labor early, not a c-section. But if you were for real, you would know that...

Yes I am quite aware what inducing labour means, but I was making it clear to everyone aswell that my girlfriend wouldn't be having a c-section either. Bye for now.

What doctor in their right mind would allow a 13 year old with twins to carry that long and without c-section. It's called liability on the doctor! I'm glad I'm delivering in the states and not the UK, do they not care about that poor girl?

Hello, Well as I've said before I am unaware of what happens in the states in pregnancy situations, an I'm no expert, but all I know is that I've been told she won't be having a c-section, because her and the babies will be put into more danger. And if thats the case well I'm in no mind to argue. By the way my girlfriend is 15 years old not 13. Thanks again. Danny.

13 or 15...same difference. She's only a baby herself. But if you must know, it creates more danger for twins to be born vaginally, for the babies and the mother. If you choose to make up stupid stories Danny, make sure you know your facts....you're still a child rapist.