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There is obviously something going on. How old are you? The obvious reason is that he has met another girl. Don't call him anymore it just screams desperation. Wait and see if he comes to you. If he does then great, if he doesn't then whatever. Just make sure you get an order for child support after the baby is born. What about his parents? I am sure his mother and father would like to know they have a grandchild coming. Can you talk to them? Not about the boyfriend, just about wether or not they want to be involved and how much. I think it would really be a good thing, not to mention his parents could be a huge influence on him as far as stepping up as a father. Just make sure that you NEVER say anything bad about him to his family. You don't want to get in to some horrible battle with them, and I am sure you want this baby to have as many people that love him/her in his/her life as possible. As hard as it may be you have to kill them with kindness, believe me it is very hard to be nasty to someone who is nice to you. Having his parents involved is also a plus for you, they could babysit, they would probably buy things for the baby. I wish you the best of luck, just remember the high road has the least pot holes. Please let me know what is happening.

I am 20 years old.
and I know I try not to call him but it is so hard to ignore it when I just found out Im pregnant ,I guess Im just hoping that this guy isnt bailing out on me.!
and I actually couldn't get a hold of him for like 2 days in a row so I called his house and his mom answered so I ask if hes there.. she says ''no he is working at an empire.'' so Im like screw it Ill just tell her now and ask that she pass along the msg. So Im sure his whole family knows now and his mom insists that he would not bail out on the kid .and there would be no stepping up as a father he already had a child with someone else!

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But He only calls me like every 2 days and NOT the weekend at all! ugh!
but I talked to him lastnight and I confronted the situation but He Says that he has just been really busy trying to get work done. and he doesnt like when I ask him questions like Do you still enjoy my company .. are you cheating... do you still want to be in a relationship..
he hates it he says Im only trying to start a fight.
I just don't understand If there where another girl why couldnt he simply say so! ?!

this situation sounds straight-forward. sorry to break it to you, hon, but he's moved on. i know you'll probably think i'm cold/harsh in my response, but i'm just telling it like it is. he doesn't call on the weekends because he's probably with his girl-du-jour. he doesn't like those questions because it makes him realise that he screwed up and got you pregnant after dating for 3 months - not to mention that he probably does care (just a little), and he doesn't like lying to you, which is why he gets all defensive when you ask him these rediculous questions. he knows the answers are going to hurt you, and he doesn't want to live with that. "are you cheating"? seriously, you're asking him this? the guy disappears for 2 days, he's impossible to get in touch with, and you're not sure if he's cheating on you? "you still want to be in a relationship"? what relationship? he clearly doesn't want a mutually exclusive relationship with you.