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Although I am not a guy, I may still have some advice for you. When I was pregnant with my son, my husband lost interest for a couple of reasons. One was the fact that I was gaining weight. He likes the thin look. (I couldnt blame him) Another was because he was afraid he was going to hurt the baby, and until he heard the words come from my Dr. that there was no way it was going to hurt the baby, he didnt have sex with me.

Now, your hormones are also going nutty right now, and he may not want to have sex for other reasons, i.e. Fatigue, stress, ect. So just talk to him, tell him you are feeling more aroused lately. Maybe you two can work something out. The key is to be honest.

Buy a vibrator. Don't suffer if he's not going to help you.

Just don't sweat it. I was a little creeped out the first time my wife was preg. and though you always read its ok to have sex...in the back of your mind you always worry a bit. He will come back to normal soon enough. Been thru this 7 (now going on 8) times.

at first when my wife started to get big and harry(yuck!) i really did not want to do it but now we are back to normal, really the only thing we did is do it in the dark, i dont have to see her (i know that sounds wrong) so in my mind she is just how she used to be. good luck