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Well you can't change him...but you can change yourself. Maybe you should try for instance not putting as much energy into him, now is an important and exciting time for you! And it's YOU you should be spending time on. It sounds like you're playing the what if game...but not playing it all the way to the end. I do that too alot. So what if the worst possible thing happens??? I think you'll find the answer is you'll get past it. You're only pregnant for 9 months, enjoy them!

If he isn't seeming as happy, it is probably more becasue he isn't working and is wondering how to financially take care of you and the baby as well as his first child. Not to mention the other baby mama acting the way she is. Pregnancy is a wonderful time and I think that you should believe him when he says he loves you. He will not love either child more than the other, and he has already shown that you come before the other baby's mama. Let him get a job and relax about things and watch him come around, until then, bring him with you to your appointments. He'll get to hear the heartbeat for the first time with you and find out what you are having with you too. With my first, my hubby was distant, until he heard the heartbeat and saw our little boy on the screen. As for your abortion, you have to forgive yourself, no one else can take that pain from you but you. You are havin a baby now and need to let go of that for yourself and your litte one. It will all work out. Just remember, he's stressed too and that is why he may not be as involved as you would like him to be. Relax, take a WARM not hot bath and talk to him about it. Ask him how he feels and try to believe him. pamper yourself too