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my bf and i have been together for a little over 2 1/2 years. i love him soo much - he's an amazing person. but recently (the last 6 months or so) he's been showing me a new side to himself. he's being very controlling and stubborn about everything concerning our future - about how to raise our kids, where we'll live, my role as a wife, what kind of dog we get...just everything. he's a very deep person and he puts a lot of thought into everything because he cares soo much and doest want anything to go wrong. but sometimes i feel like he cares TOO much. does anyone else have a bf or husband like this? is it okay for me to give in and go along with it - or am i just being week because i've been with him for so long that i'm scared of being alone? i think the reason its bothering me so much right now is because now i think i may be pregnant, and that idea is forcing me to see is controlling habits in a real-life, realistic way. he had a very difficult childhood full of abuse both physical and mental - but he's done very very well for himself, especially considering his circumstances. i think he's just desperate to make sure his kids have everything he wanted so bad as a child. please give advice!!!!
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