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My Pregnant Gf Hates Me...somebody Please Help Me

1 posts on this thread and the last post was on November 20th, 2008 1:11 PM
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dontknowwhatidid - November 10th, 2008 2:16 AM
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My gf is almost 5 months pregnant. For the last 2 months I have lived in a hell that is almost painful to describe. The mood swings happened occasionally for a couple of weeks, but I can actually pin it down to an exact second that something snapped inside of her and she has had it out for me ever since. I can literally do nothing right. Every morning I wake up before her and make her 1 year old a bottle so that she doesn't have to. Then I clean our apartment and cook her breakfast. I have done this for her nearly our entire relationship, but now she finds flaws in everything. No matter what happens during the day it is always my fault...even if I'm not home. We haven't kissed, hugged, or even held hands for months, and now she says that she doesn't love me and that I don't do anything for her. I have no idea what to do. I feel like I'm dying inside more and more every day. I am so in love with this girl, and so in love with her child. I have done everything that I could for the two of them since I met them, and I just don't know what to do. As hurt as I am she still expects me to be taking care of the two of them, but she acts like once the baby is born it's over. I'm really hoping it's just hormones, but I am falling apart. Please help.


nikkis18 - November 20th, 2008 1:11 PM

i'd say she probably doesn't hate you just give her space and tell her how you feel. maybe she is just really scared and she is taking it out on you. tell her how beautiful she is everyday buy her flowers take her out to a nice dinner anything to make her feel better.