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2 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 23rd, 2005 2:02 PM
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tina - June 2nd, 2005 5:56 PM
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so the father of my baby left me at about 4 months then called about a month ago and we began to talk again, I am now 35 wks. he talks to me like we are friends which really bothers me. I still love him, he told me he didn't love me when he left at 4 months along. Since we began talking again we have slept together, I know that I shouldn't have but like I said I still love him and wanted to feel close to him. So I asked him why he talks to me like I am nothing, he got angry with me and probably won't call me again. Is it so wrong that I asked him that, I feel like such an idiot now for even saying anything but this is how I feel. Do I have any right to say anything to him at this point, we are not together but my feelings are still there, and i could never be just friends with him.??

Brian - June 3rd, 2005 4:36 PM

Sounds like miranda from Sex and the City....ever watch those episodes? I would say, he is probably confused, and a good sit-down talk would really help, but before you begin to talk, you need to make some rules...like no raising voices, no name calling, and everything must be 100% truth. Ya'll can't be afraid to have a heart to heart, and let each other know how you both truely feel.


Kat - June 23rd, 2005 2:02 PM

I think that is how you felt and that is what u wanted to say. I think that maybe you would like to him talk to you like there was emotion behind what he is saying to you and maybe you just are having a hard time accepting it that there isnt. I believe you should just give it time and see if he comes around....best of luck