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This Isnt How I Hoped It To Be

1 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 2nd, 2007 2:34 PM
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dontwannabeme17 - June 2nd, 2007 1:41 PM
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I just found out a day or so ago that I'm pregnant. Last cycle when I wasn't pregnant he seemed so sad. He hugged me and said, "I had so many things planned. I was going to measure your tummy every week." He said we'd keep trying. So this cycle I ended up being pregnant. I showed him the test and since the line was very faint he didn't believe it at first. He looked regretful. He assured me that he wasn't regretful, but I could HEAR and SEE regret in his eyes and voice. He said he's just scared. We don't live together and there is a reason for that, and he's a little bit older than I am. He also said, "I'm afraid I won't be able to be there as much as I would like to be." I dont understand why all these other cycles that I didn't end up pregnant he seemed sad and said, "I cant wait until your preggnant to see how beautiful you are because women are most beautiful when they're pregnant," and he tells me he was gonna measure my stomach, and he loved the baby clothes I bought already, but NOW that I AM pregnant he seems regretful. And he will NOT spill his true feelings. I have to PULL it outta him and even then he doesnt say much. What is going on?


babii_boo91 - June 2nd, 2007 2:34 PM

my bf was like that and was honeslty a prick for the first month or two but he came around ithink alot of it was is own fear and now he has to smarten up and do the best he can. give him a lil while to get his stuff together but if after a lil while things dont change id say think of other options(maybe him not being part) u need someon who will support you GOOD LUCK and congrats on being a mummie to be