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KEEKEE - April 28th, 2005 11:30 AM

That old Bitch should have been cussed out!!!! I have never seen a 9 month old walking. It is none of her business. People amaze me with their stupid comments......When my son was 7 years old, My hubby and I took him out to eat. He don't know how to hold a fork and I was feeding him. This old( bitter for being old) couple kept sharing and shaking their head. Had the nerve to say" He should be eating by himself" I said "Mind your fucking business" and they left. My ex family said I didn't want him to walk. I have a temper and a nasty mouth. I throw her coat off the window and said get the fuck out of my house..That was the last time she seen my son at age 2. She didn't see him again until age 4 when he was hosptalized...I try to keep negative people away from me.....Some people don't understand how a negative comment can make things harder on you..The problem is when you look at my son, you can't tell there is something wrong. He's beautiful. I guessing that is whats going on with your daughter. People can't tell. I bet she's beautiful. You are so lucky to have her. My son taught me how to love no manner what. He is prefect in my eyes...........Elexsis is a beautiful name for your little angel. I love names that not everyone would have. My boys names is Avery and Jordan. My sweet angels. Jordan was born at 32 weeks. He's grown!!!!..................I am sorry to hear about your health problems. It will get better in do time. I had health problems after pregnancies too. I had preeclampsia. So, I know high blood pressure is serious. Try to relax. Do you have anyone that can help you out???? Your mom or dad. I just wish you had more support......My guys want more cookies!!!!! I'm out!!!!!................Smoochies!!!!!


KEEKEE - April 28th, 2005 5:04 PM

Dymond there is a person called Michelle under pregnancy complication who has a daughter who is 9 years old with this illness. You may want to read what she said under Hydranecephaly. Take a look. I think she could be a lot of help. Her child is 9 years old!!!!!! Forget about that 1 year. I'm gonna leave a message for her.......Holla


MICHELLE - April 28th, 2005 6:34 PM

HI KEEKEE, I READ THAT YOU WANTED ME TO RESPOND TO DYMON REQUEST. I'M SORRY ABOUT YOUR BABY DAUGHTER DYMOND. BUT I TELL YA WITH PRAYER, LOVE AND THE STRENGTH THAT YOU HAVE YOU AND ELEXIS WILL BE FINE, THEY'RE FINDING CURES AND TREATMENTS EVERYDAY. HOWEVER I APOLOGIZE FOR NOT KNOWING MUCH ABOUT YOUR BABY CONDITION. MY DAUGHTER HAS HYDROCEPHALUS/ WHICH MEANS FLUID ON THE BRAIN(waterhead babies, as some insensitive people call them) HER CONDITION IS BEING TREATED WITH A SHUNT WHICH DRAINS THE FLUID FOR HER. YOUR CHILD HAS HYDRANENCEPHALY WHICH I WILL HAVE TO DO MORE RESEARCH ON. MY DAUGHTER HAS HER CHECKUP COMING UP MAY 3RD AND I WILL ASK HER DOCTORS ARE THERE AND SUPPORTIVE OR EDUCATIONAL WEB SITES THAT YOU MAY BROWSE. IN THE MEANTIME TRY BROWSING MOMMYGUIDE.COM. GOOD LUCK AND STAY STRONG YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS.



KEEKEE - April 29th, 2005 3:01 PM

Thanks Michelle, you are so nice. ......Dymond, How are you feeling today? How's that cute little girl?.....I'm hope everythings fine. Holla when you get time.........Smooches


dymond - April 30th, 2005 12:52 AM

to michelle,thanks for wanting to help. ive dont some research onlinebut it will check out that website. my daughter also has a shunt in, she got it whhen she was 4 months(3surgeries within thos following 4 weeks) i have tried tlaking to her dr.s but they talk to me as if i dont understand what she has. i guess the fact that im a teen mom plays a big part in how they see me at times. and keekee, i do have some help, not much but its something. my mom trys but shes soo nervous about watchng her becuz she has her times when she willl only calm down for me, and sh gets too worked up at times then she stops breathing completely and mom freaks out and me on the other hand knows how to calm her down. i do go up to orlando once a month-about 2 hours away-and my cousin thats a nurse at a nicu watches her those weekends and lets me go out during the day nd get some time to m self. sorry i did not get to respond last night, we had to stay at the hospital but no alarm, just for a test which gave me good news-we had a EEG done and there were no signs of siezure activity going on. but i do have one question if there is nyone that can answer this-ive seen cts scans showing extremely little amount of brain so how is it that this test can be done? i was told it tracks her brain waves and patterns with in? well, duty calls once again, ill be back later tonight. and kee kee, if u wanna send me something to my email or im me if your online to sn-dymondcolon, or dymondcolon@aol.com and ill send you a pic!!!


Carleen - May 2nd, 2005 3:23 PM

Dymond - Please know that the love and prayers of many, many moms out there are with you every day!!!!! The Lord only gives us what he knows we have the strength to handle and he obviously trusts you an awful lot to give you so much. Your daughter is very lucky to have been born to such a person as yourself. Stay strong!!!! God Bless!!!


KEEKEE - May 2nd, 2005 6:13 PM

Sorry Dymond for the delay. My son has EEg on regular basic too. He hates the hosptial. He use to scream when we pulled u to the door. Now he's getting better.....I was 20 when I had my son. Doctors are like that. Some doctors are rude and impaitent. It has nothing to do with age.If you don't like a doctor change him or her. Always feel comfort with who is treating your child. Never feel like you have to put up with rude people......Well, I have a hard time leaving my son too. People don't understand how much pressure you are under.It is good that you are taking a break.......I pray for you and your little girl every night. It is so nice to talk to you. I'm gonna try to email you later. If you don't get a email, look for it tommorrow....Oh, what happened during your pregnancy?? Did your pregnancy cause your health problems now?? Do you have HELPP?? Just wondering...........Smooches



Maya - May 3rd, 2005 6:55 PM

Hyrdanecephaly, as she quoted, is a real disease. She just spelt it wrong, people have a heart.


hag - May 4th, 2005 2:41 AM

Dymond, I have 5 children (all adopted) with hydranencephaly. It is not really rare, but more uncommon. The old myth that they die by one year is just that, a myth. Mine are 9, 5, 3, 2 and 2 months. I know people who have children with hydran who are in their twenties! Most people think a child born without a brain is merely existing, but they are so cool, they have personality, they are happy, they cry, they laugh, they learn... not like other kids but they do learn. They have a life! Feel free to IM or email anytime. My name is Karin and my address is AASKNC@aol.com.


MICHELLE - May 4th, 2005 4:46 PM

HI DYMOND, SORRY I DIDNT'T GET BACK WITH YOU YESTERDAY. I HAD TO RESCHEDULE MY DAUGHTER APPT BECAUSE I SPENT THE WHOLE NIGHT IN L&D MYSELF. I WENT INTO EARLY LABOR AND THEY WOULN'T LET ME GO UNTIL MY CONTRACTIONS STOPPPED AND TO MAKE SURE I DIDN'T DIALATE ANYMORE. THEY SAID I'M AT HIGH RISK OF HAVING A DOWNS BABY, SO IF THAT'S TRUE I KNOW THAT MY BABY WILL COME EARLY ANYWAY. I'M NOT SURE IF I AM BECAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE THE AMNIO DONE. I WILL LOVE MY BABY REGARDLESS. WELL I'M KIND OF TIRED SO I GUESS I WILL SIGN OFF NOW, I JUST DIDN'T WANT YOU TO THINK I FORGOT ABOUT YOU AND YOUR PRECIOUS ONE. I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU AND ALL THE MOTHERS WHO ARE GOING THROUGH THESE TRYING TIMES. REMEMBER TO KEEP THE FAITH, STAY STONG AND LOVE YOUR LITTLE ANGEL. GOD BLESS.......


Renne - May 6th, 2005 2:21 PM

I found this website

http://www.hydranencephaly.com/


KEEKEE - May 8th, 2005 1:33 PM

Happy Mother Day everyone!!!!! Please try to enjoy this day. I hope everything is well........Smooches!!!!


Jill - May 10th, 2005 12:36 PM

Here is some information I found
About Hydranencephaly
This page is going to be more technical than the other chapters in this book. I want to give you a brief overview of brain development and what happens when there is a problem at different stages of development. There is also information from a radiologist on the diagnosis of Hydranencephaly. And, then is an overview of the brain and brainstem.
Before talking specifically about Hydranencephaly, here is a fairly good overview of brain development and what happens when something goes wrong at a specific stage of development.
Brain Development from Principal Health News http://www.principalhealthnews.c
om/topic/topic100586649

Brain
development begins shortly after conception and continues throughout the growth of a fetus. A complex genetic program coordinates the formation, growth, and migration of billions of neurons, or nerve cells, and their development into discrete, interacting brain regions. Interruption of this program, especially early in development, can cause structural defects in the brain. In addition, normal brain formation requires proper development of the surrounding skull, and skull defects may lead to brain malformation. Congenital brain defects may be caused by inherited genetic defects, spontaneous mutations within the genes of the embryo, or effects on the embryo due to the mother's infection, trauma, or drug use.
Early on in development, a flat strip of tissue along the back of the fetus rolls up to form a tube. This so-called "neural tube" develops into the spinal cord, and at one end, the brain. Closure of the tube is required for subsequent development of the tissue within. Anencephaly (literally "without brain"), results when the topmost portion of the tube fails to close. Anencephaly is the most common severe malformation seen in stillborn births. It is about four times more common in females than males. Anencephaly is sometimes seen to run in families, and for parents who have conceived one anencephalic fetus, the risk of a second is as high as 5%. Fewer than half of babies with anencephaly are born alive, and survival beyond the first month is rare.
Encephalocele is a protrusion of part of the brain through a defect in the skull. The most common site for encephalocele is along the front-to-back midline of the skull, usually at the rear, although frontal encephaloceles are more common among Asians. Pressure within the skull pushes out cranial tissue. The protective layer over the brain, the meninges, grows to cover the protrusion, as does skin in some cases. Defects in skull closure are thought to cause some cases of encephalocele, while defects in neural tube closure may cause others. Encephaloceles may be small and contain little or no brain tissue, or may be quite large and contain a significant fraction of the brain.
Failure of neural-tube closure below the level of the brain prevents full development of the surrounding vertebral bones and leads to spina bifida, or a divided spinal column. Incomplete closure causes protrusion of the spinal cord and meninges, called meningomyelocele. Some cases of spina bifida are accompanied by another defect at the base of the brain, known as the Arnold-Chiari malformation or Chiari II malformation. For reasons that are unclear, part of the cerebellum is displaced downward into the spinal column. Symptoms may be present at birth or delayed until early childhood.
The Dandy-Walker malformation is marked by incomplete formation, or absence of, the central section of the cerebellum, and the growth of cysts within the lowest of the brain's ventricles. The ventricles are fluid-filled cavities within the brain, through which cerebrospinal fluid (CSF) normally circulates. The cysts may block the exit of the fluid, causing hydrocephalus. Symptoms may be present at birth or delayed until early childhood.
Soon after closure of the neural tube, the brain divides into two halves, or hemispheres. Failure of division is termed holoprosencephaly (literally "whole forebrain"). Holoprosencephaly is almost always accompanied by facial and cranial deformities along the midline, including cleft lip, cleft palate, fused eye sockets and a single eye (cyclopia), and deformities of the limbs, heart, gastrointestinal tract, and other internal organs. Most infants are either stillborn or die soon after birth. Survivors suffer from severe neurological impairments.
The normal ridges and valleys of the mature brain are formed after cells from the inside of the developing brain migrate to the outside and multiply. When these cells fail to migrate, the surface remains smooth, a condition called lissencephaly ("smooth brain"). Lissencephaly is often associated with facial abnormalities including a small jaw, a high forehead, a short nose, and low-set ears.
If damaged during growth, especially within the first 20 weeks, brain tissue may stop growing, while tissue around it continues to form. This causes an abnormal cleft or groove to appear on the surface of the brain, called schizencephaly (literally "split brain"). This cleft should not be confused with the normal wrinkled brain surface, nor should the name be mistaken for schizophrenia, a mental disorder. Generalized destruction of tissue or lack of brain development may lead to hydranencephaly, in which cerebrospinal fluid fills much of the space normally occupied by the brain. Hydranencephaly is distinct from hydrocephalus, in which CSF accumulates within a normally-formed brain, putting pressure on it and possibly causing skull expansion.
Excessive brain size is termed megalencephaly (literally "big brain"). Megalencephaly is defined as any brain size above the 98th percentile within the population. Some cases are familial, and may be entirely benign. Others are due to metabolic or neurologic disease. The opposite condition, microcephaly, may be caused by failure of the brain to develop, or by intrauterine infection, drug toxicity, or brain trauma. This information is from Principal Health News http://www.principalhealthn
ews.com/topic/topic10058664
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Radiological Diagnosis of Hydranencephaly
Jim Barkovich, MD is one of the best-known pediatric neuroradiologists in the country. His book, Pediatric Neuroimaging, is one of the most used references on the subject. He defines hydranencephaly as "...a condition in which most of the brain mantle (cortical plate and hemispheric white matter) has been damaged, liquified, and resorbed." This condition may be the end result of more than one causative event. Infection and massive vascular occlusion involving the carotid arteries are the two most often cited. Because hydranencephaly may be a result of different processes the imaging can be somewhat variable. The "classic" appearance is complete replacement of the cerebral hemispheres with fluid. No cortical mantle is visible on MRI. The thalami and cerebellum are usually spared. Some sparing of the inferior frontal and inferior temporal lobes may be present. Roger Harned
The Brain In Hydranencephaly
Basically Hydranencephaly indicates that a child is missing much or most of their cerebral hemispheres, that is, the two masses of folded brain tissue (cortex) that surround the brain stem. Literally "anencephaly" means "without brain", but this is technically incorrect as a term for the cases to which it is applied, which almost invariably have a brain stem. The brain stem is most definitely a part of the brain, and a very important part of the brain.. However, many children have some of their cerebral hemispheres so can use these and learn to do more than would be expected by this diagnosis. Just as all children are different, all children with Hydranencephaly are different as well. What may be a major difficulty for one child (like seizures) may not even be present in another.
What causes Hydranencephaly?
This is a great and often asked question. Unfortunately I don’t believe that there is a clear cause.
Cause Questionnaire # 1 (2001)
58 participants Questionnaire # 2
(2002)
39 participants Questionnaire # 3
(2002-2003)
81 participants
Prenatal Stroke 43.1% 43.59% 38.27%
Prenatal Drug exposure 5.2% 7.69% 11.11%
Prenatal infection 8.6% 5.13% 7.4%
Death of Twin in Utero 6.9% 2.56% 5%
Prematurity 1.7% 0 0
Other 8.6% 10.26% Not asked
Unknown 41.4% 30.77% 44.44%
Obviously there are a variety of causes.
I’m including here some summaries of research projects I’ve found on the Internet.
1. Association of prenatal vascular disruptions with decreased maternal age. (Am J Med Genet 1997 Mar 31;69(3):237-9 Lubinsky MS Department of Pediatrics, Medical College of Wisconsin, Milwaukee, USA.)
Disruptions of fetal structures can create a variety of congenital anomalies. Some apparent prenatal vascular disruptions associate strongly with decreased maternal age, and are rare with older mothers. This is well-documented for gastroschisis, (A birth defect in which there is a separation in the abdominal wall. Through this opening protrudes part of the intestines which are not covered by peritoneum (the membrane that normally lines the inside of the abdomen). Definition from Medicinenet.com) but similar findings with hydranencephaly suggest a general phenomenon that may also involve porencephaly, septo-optic dysplasia, early body stalk disruptions, certain hemifacial anomalies, and other findings. Prenatal vascular disruption may be a common cause of congenital anomalies, but its nature is unknown, and obvious environmental confounders associated with decreased maternal age may have only relatively small contributions. A protective effect for pregnancies of older mothers also remains a possibility.
2. Decreased maternal age with hydranencephaly (Am J Med Genet 1997 Mar 31;69(3):232-4 Lubinsky MS, Adkins W, Kaveggia EG
Department of Pediatrics, Medical College of Wisconsin, Milwaukee, USA.)
We studied parental ages of institutionalized children with hydranencephaly. Mothers under age 20 years and under age 18 years were, respectively, 5 and 10 times as frequent as in the general population, and 3 and 4 times more frequent than for institutionalized control patients. Unwed mothers were also common, but may reflect high rates in younger mothers combined with institutionalization bias. Thus, hydranencephaly appears to show a decreased maternal age effect, similar to that seen with other conditions presumably due to prenatal vascular disruptions. (PMID: 9096748, UI: 97251065 )
Contrary to what is stated in this study our experience has had different results.
Our results were:
Age of Mother at time of birth Questionnaire # 1
2001
58 responses Questionnaire #2
2002
36 replies Questionnaire #3
2002-2003
81 responses
Under 20 44.7% 38.85% 41.94%
Over 20 53.4% 61.1% 56.3%
From the Swiss Society of Neonatology
Hydranencephaly is a rare condition defined as extensive destruction of the brain caused by disruption of brain perfusion. The normal brain tissue is replaced by a membranous sac which is filled with fluid.1 In a series of 4122 autopsies, 363 cases revealed some congenital CNS malformation (235 liveborn infants and 128 stillborn infants), but hydranencephaly was diagnosed in only two patients.2

Disruptions affect mainly the major vessels of the anterior and middle cerebral arteries. Up to the 20th week of gestation neuronal migration is still active. The earlier disruptions occur in the second trimester, the more migrational disorganisation may be found. After 20 weeks of gestation, the brain lesions are not accompanied by cytoarchitectural disorders. During this midgestational period, the neural tube is already closed and well developed. Intact skull and scalp are covering the underlying central nervous system structures and the head appears normal.
Fetal cerebral perfusion can be affected by A) maternal conditions (cardiovascular collapse; trauma; gas poisoning; coagulopathy; cocaine abuse), B) fetal conditions (multiple pregnancy; non-immune hydrops fetalis; blood dyscrasia), or C) placenta and cord pathologies (infarct; calcifications; knot of the cord; neoplasm).3

In surviving infants, neuromotor activity is very limited with some patients developing uncoordinated movements. Convulsions are rarely described because of the absence of a motor cortex in most patients*. The sensory capacities are also very limited with some reaction to strong light. In very rare cases, crying and smiling may be seen.

Prolonged survival of up to 19 years can occur with hydranencephaly; it is, however, not associated with any improvements in consciousness or awareness.4 Electrophysioogic features cannot be used as predictors of the length of survival, whereas some authors have suggested a functioning hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis to be essential for prolonged survival.
* Please note: according to our survey of 81 children with Hydranencephaly 75% of the children have seizures. However they are usually brain stem seizures (see p. for more information)

Antepartum fetal intracranial hemorrhage, predisposing factors and prenatal sonography: a review. Sherer DM, Anyaegbunam A, Onyeije C


(PMID: 9759911, UI: 98430711)
Here’s an interesting article
Hemihydranencephaly: case report and literature review.
Greco F, Finocchiaro M, Pavone P, Trifiletti RR, Parano E.
Department of Pediatrics, University of Catania, Italy.
Hydranencephaly is a severe brain condition characterized by complete or almost complete absence of cerebral cortex with preservation of meninges, basal ganglia, pons, medulla, cerebellum, and falx. It has been ascribed to different causes (infections, irradiations, fetal anoxia, medications, twin-twin transfusion), all leading to vascular disruption. Hemihydranencephaly is an extremely rare condition in which the vascular anomaly is unilateral. We report on a patient who was suspected to have hydrocephalus in utero; a brain magnetic resonance imaging scan showed left-sided hydranencephaly with preservation of basal ganglia. The patient developed signs of right hemiparesis but notably has only mild language delay. The available literature on hemihydranencephaly is reviewed.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/ent
rez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&am
p;list_uids=11305691&dopt=Abstract
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of Hydranencephaly: print friendly version

I got this form www.hydranecephaly.com






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Jelena - May 15th, 2005 3:45 PM

I have a woman what works with me who had a little boy 16 years ago who was also born with just a brain stem my e-mail adress is Jelena1819@yahoo.com I would love to help you in anyway I can E- mail me and we'll talk


Kimbra Craig - May 16th, 2005 10:30 PM

Hello Dymond... My name is Kimbra and my son's name is Dillion... He is 3 years old, and was also born with Hydranencephaly... I would be more than happy to be of any help or support I can be to you... My son has a website www.ourboogieman.com please feel free to check it out if you would like