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How Goods Is Sex To Induce Labour

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kerrie - January 1st, 2005 11:43 AM
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hi can anyone tell me how good sex is to help me kick start my labour im 38 wks 1/2 cm dilated and 80% effaced and my midwife told me to have sex with my partner to help move thing along has it worked for anyone else plz let me know


KM - January 2nd, 2005 12:58 PM

the prostglandins in semen will help soften your cervix. in most cases it wont start labour, well pretty much in every case. but it will help prepare your cervix to start dialating.


Carie - January 6th, 2005 8:32 PM

Sex hasn't worked for us yet.
I am 40 weeks and 3 days, almost 4 cm dilated and 75% effaced. There is no sign labour will begin. It is fun in the beginning but now it feels like we have to do it because I don't want to miss an opportunity to have this baby naturally. I have 4 days until my induction. Fingers crossed.


Ann - January 10th, 2005 11:16 AM

Sex worked for me, I was a week early. I had sex the night before and the next afternoon my water broke and I had my son.



TN - January 23rd, 2005 8:34 PM

I am not dilating as of yet. Have any suggestions for me to get me started? I am 37 weeks with Diabetes and my doctor wants to see some dilating starting.


tiffany - February 4th, 2005 10:43 PM

it helped us, i started slow labor 4 hours after we did and iwas 2 weeks earlywe didnt do this on purpose.


Nessa - February 5th, 2005 8:04 PM

hey i juststarted my 38th week and all sex does for me is give me bad pains in my cervix area. Like horrible period pains that last the whole day but nothing special ever happens.


KM - February 7th, 2005 1:58 PM

Like I said, it will help you start dialating and will possible help bring on mild contractions. The prostglandins in semen will soften the cervix.They are the same thing that the are in the cervidil gel that the doctors use to prepare for induction, except, there is way less in semen.Walking will help, nipple stimulation may start contractions up a bit. DO not use blue or black cohsoh or castor oil. This is VERY dangerous for the baby. Just be active, do some vacuming, walk for an hour everynight.Raspberry leaf tea, will not start labour. But it will help tone and prepare your uterus and may make labour a bit easier.It is typically used in preperation for childbirth.



emmi - February 8th, 2005 7:59 AM

I'm due tomorrow and sex last night has had no effect so far...


Ms. Star - February 8th, 2005 8:18 AM

Sex hasnt helped us so far, im 3 days overdue. I walk for an hour a day and still nothing, they stripped my membranes yesterday so we will see what happens.


sharon - February 10th, 2005 12:50 PM

hi it worked for me i was due on the 31st aug with my first and after having sex at night the next day she was born, on the 29 aug, 2 days early and she was born in 4 and a 1/2 hrs!with no pain relief and only 15 mins pushing if that that'll be what ill be doing with my next to start me off!! good luck


Christine - February 17th, 2005 3:10 AM

I have tried almost all of the old wives tales with no result. I worked at a job that is very physical (including heavy lifting) upto 36 weeks. I've had more frequent sex since I have become pregnant and we are overdue with no dilation and no effacement and it looks like I will most likely have to be induced. Good luck.


Tara - February 24th, 2005 2:39 PM

I heard sex really works. So I would try it. I'm going to try it tonight. But you have to make sure you orgasm and get the semen inside you.


ls - March 7th, 2005 2:58 AM

i have tryed it every day and its not worked for me


courtney - March 10th, 2005 8:06 PM

Semen has all the same properties of the cream they use on your cervix to ripen it; prostglandins. So its worth a try!


Kristen - March 11th, 2005 7:23 PM

I just want to know anyway to help speed up the processof labor. I walk every night, sex here and there, and I've even scrubbed my kitchen floor. Just a few I've tried. The sex thing I'm not sure works, but it sounds cool to at least try. If anyone has anything they can tell me, my e-mail is gavin2005@cox.net. Just let me know. Thank you.


Tammie R - March 14th, 2005 7:51 AM

I'm 38wks with my second child. On my first child I carried a bucket of coal inside from the coalshed, as I was afraid the fire would go out and I had no idea when my partner was due back home. went into a long labour the following morning, and by 9pm that night i was ready to go to hospital. The baby was born at 1 am. I'm with someone else now, and no we aint got solid fuel heating...