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Just Not Interested In Sex.....

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on July 15th, 2009 4:59 PM

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aiyyiyi - May 3rd, 2009 4:36 PM

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I had my baby 2 months ago today. We didn't have much sex in the first trimester, because I was sick. My last trimester I felt huge and didn't feel like sex. Now that it's been a few weeks since I had the checkup and everything's OK (as in, no more excuses) I still just don't feel like having sex.
I'm not depressed, I've shed most of the baby weight already (breastfeeding is a great diet :D). My baby's beautiful, we're adjusting well, and I should be very happy in my relationship. We're really walking on eggshells around each other because he's feeling neglected and I don't know how to fix it, unless I force it. I really just don't have the energy left at the end of the day to do something I really don't want to do.
His patience is running out... He's got a really high sex drive, and I did too, once upon a time. How is it that I can't even muster up a tiny bit of the enthusiasm I once had for our sex life?
Is something wrong with me?

Le CORE Couture - July 10th, 2009 6:40 PM

Nothings wrong with you! I would look at your diet...sounds funny but maybe you need you have a bit of chocolate or some oysters to stimulate the drive. I had my daughter 3 1/2 months ago and I still haven't gotten my drive back. My reason is I'm exhausted- both mentally and physically. If I can find ways to relax myselfduring the busy day I feel more able and interested in sex. Is it possible he puts too much pressure on the subject?

siempremi - July 15th, 2009 4:59 PM

Agreed that nothing is wrong with you. I started feeling a glimmer after a few months. I too had a high drive. Most of the time I am simply too tired and too sore (from c-section) to go for it though.

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