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I Need Reassurance Please!

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on May 14th, 2008 6:24 PM
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mgrin - March 17th, 2008 9:50 AM
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I posted this in another forum but am going to in this one as well. In the month of July my current boyfriend and I were not together. I slept with somone once, we used a condom and pulled out... i wish i never did this. The was during the last week of July (I don't know the exact date). Then On August 10, my boyfriend and I got back together and we slept together on that day and everyday after that. I took a pregnancy test about August 25 and it was negative, then i started getting sick and took another in October and it was positive. One october 19 I had my first ultrasound saying i was 10 weeks and 3 days, therefore making my conceive date around August 21 and my due date around May 13, 2008. My periods will come one month then i will not have another for 2. How accurate are ulstrasounds? And what are the chances that the baby is not my boyfriends? I'm really scared and regret ever sleeping with the other guy. PLEASE HELP!

Brenna - May 7th, 2008 6:30 PM

Well,based on the info,I don't see how it could be the other guys,I guess you could do a paternity test after the baby is born.But your chances of getting preg.with a condom and pulling out,if there is a chance,would be pretty much nonexistent in my opinion.If it was me,I wouldn't worry.Does your boyfriend know?

Excited new mom - May 14th, 2008 6:24 PM

I agree with Brenna, it does not seem likely that your baby's father is the "other guy." However, this may plague you for years if you are not honest with your boyfriend about it. He will probably find out about the other guy eventually, and the longer you wait to open up to him, the worse it will hurt him when he finds out. Besides, how do you know that during your separation he did not sleep with someone else? If he freaks and does not come back, he was not a suitable match for you or the baby. Be honest with him, let him be honest with you (if he will talk about it right away, he may need some time to process) and let the events unfold.