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Thank you for writing this, from my now broken heart

Hi Nopi.
I am sorry but I am also in your situations "first pregnant, first miscarriage. I want to share my story you. I am married for 3 years. and my period is not regular, some times 3mos, 6mos. and i went to doctor, he gave me birth control for treatment. After a while I stopped, and my period did come. .

Because I did not have OHIP, My husband sponsors me for 3 year. My case still did n't approve until now. And any time I went to doctor, I have to pay. I spent a lot of money on doctor and birth contol because my period did not come since i stopped the BC.I went to another doctor again , he told me I had to lose wieght.and still took BC. I took BC after 3mos, then I stopped again.

Then my last period was nov3. then dec,jan,then feb 5. i was bleed. You know what I thought that was a period. I did n't know anything. It bleeded 1day,2day,3day. I don't that related to what I ate or not and I ate green beans, crabs .the fourth day that night bleed alot alot alot, my under stomach so hurt on and off , i still thought period. Whole night I couldn't sleep. untill tommorw I went to family doctor he thought my intestinal and he gave me medicine .it still hurt alot, at night i can't stand. my husband took me to Emergency. I spent $400 to get inside.then they took my urine. After a while , the doctor came in and gave me and my husband a big shock that he said he saw my blood level that I am pregance.

At that time i felt happy and sad. happy that i can be pregnancy because doctor said my pregancey percent really low. Sad that I can be lost it because it was bleed a lot so many days and doctor took me to do ultrasound to find out why bleed. I spent $300 for that. after 6 hours they said I am threatened abortion and sent me home and told me go to gynecology. After i called my gynecology they said i had to pay $120 to see him and $1200 because I am pregnancy. After 2 days i went to doctor he told me that i lost it completely. I was sad sad. if i can knew it early early early then i can save it. And i think it related to what i ate that night. if it can give me some more noticed ,vomit or something . I could not stop to think about it since then almost 4 weeks .I wish i have known I was pregnancy. Maybe I can save baby. How stupid am I because I did not have any clues, only my breast hurts, I just thought that is normal for period.

Sorry my story so long

Hope we are in luck again.

And I did not tell anybody, even family .Only me and husband. And only i share with everybody who have read my story.
thanks

I am sorry for your loss. I too had a miscarriage and it was my first pregnancy as well. I was 8 wks and the baby stopped growing at 5. I know how tough it is. I hope that you get pregnant again real soon and have a healthy sucessful pregnancy!

I'm 36. I was also recently pregnant for the first time (after trying for 3 years). Miscarried last week at 9 wks (baby stopped growing at 5) just like Krystal. That is a difficult hump in the first trimester to get over from all the posts I've read on here. Plus, I've had to attend baby showers for friends last weekend and this weekend. PLUS, our 21 year old unmarried, barely employed, uninsured cousin told us she's pregnant! That was the last straw for me! Seems like every direction I look, someone is announcing a new pregnancy. I'm thinking positive that it'll be me again in a few months. Get back on that horse and try again ladies! Thank you for sharing! Glad I'm not alone!

Hi Ladies, thank you all for your stories and thoughts. It has been almost 8wks since my miscarriage...and once i got AF back i felt soo much better, because i knew my body was back to normal. My husband and I decided to wait to tell everyone until after the first trimester for the next time were pregnant..i dont want to go through telling everyone and then telling them about another m/c.

Zam - i am sorry for your loss. ill keep you and your hubby in my prayers for a BFP. :-)

Jam - i understand totally! it took me a while to be "ok" with seeing pregnant women and baby things...and i have friends that are pregnant around me. But one old co worker text messaged me last week to tell me she was 8wks pregnant... i said "congratz im happy for you!" she said "don't be, im getting rid of it!" i lost it! how dare she say that to ME...considering that she knows about my m/c....i was angry for a minute...why her and not me...but i just had to relax and believe that God will give us a baby when he sees fit.

I wish all of you the best of luck with a BFP in the near future and when you do.. a H&H9mos!

:-)

HEY GUYS!
I GUESS I COULD SHARE MY STORY AS WELL. WELL HERE GOES.. I HAVE ALWAYS WANTED TO HAVE A BABY, MOST OF MY FRIENDS HAVE KIDS AND I LOVE THEM TO DEATH. ONCE ME AND MY BOYFRIEND DECIDED TO HAVE ONE, IT TOOK US ABOUT 6 MONTHS TO ACTUALLY CONCEIVE, BUT WHEN WE DID I COULDNT EVEN IMAGINE THAT I WOULD LOSE THE BABY. I WENT IN FOR MY FIRST APPOINTMENT AND I WAS SUPPOSE TO BE 6 WEEKS AND 3 DAYS, BUT ALL THEY SAW WAS THE GESTATIONAL SAC AND NOTHING ELSE. WE WAITED 2 MORE WEEKS, AND STILL THE SAME. I HAD A D&C ON FEB 4TH, I JUST COULDNT BARE TO WAIT FOR MY BODY TO NATURALLY DISPOSE OF THE BABY. IT WAS TO HARD. EVEN TO THIS DAY I HAVE A HARD TIME WALKING BY BABY CLOTHES AND SEEING ALL MY CO WORKERS HAVING BABIES. I AM HOPPING SOON IT WILL HAPEN FOR US

Hello Everyone! Two weeks ago i took 2 prego test at home and good news after being married 3 years came, i was PREGGERS! I paniced, didn't know what to expect. My husband and i had a rough year and a half where he almost lost his life due to a staph infection but pulled through though still recovering. So this news was such joy to us! i made an appt to my GYN the next day. I was 5 weeks prego and my blood work came back great, progesteron a little low but they said it was ok because it was still early. My hcg came back in the 4,000 range. They did a vaginal ultrasound and saw nothing so told me to come back in a week. i didn't worry because it was still early.

I went last week, at 6 weeks for another ultrasound. This time they saw a sac perfectly but no fetus. The doctor was concerned and sent me for more blood work and told me if next week, today, they didn't ses anything, they were going to discuss with me getting a D&C. My blood work came back perfect. My progesteron came back slightly high and my hcg had almost doubled to the 7,000 range.

Today i went, at 7 weeks for my third ultrasound and they said there was no fetus. They said i miscarried and that the sac actually got smaller. They told me they have to perform a D&C. It has been such a sad day for me and my husband! They keep asking me if i've been bleeding but nothing, i've never bled. They want to schedule me for a D&C tomorrow but i need time to take this all in. I want to wait a few days, do it next week. This is my first baby, first miscarriage. Any advise out there?

Hi Ladies
i found out i was Pregnant in late november well before telling me my Dr actually had the nerve to fill out a referal for an abortion clinic and hand it to me , dw i let him have it. it was a big surprise as we hadn't planned to have a baby . i asked my Dr for an ultra sound as i wanted to know how far i was , what was meant to be the happiest day of my life turned into the worst when he told me at 9 weeks there was no heart beat. it's weird because i had no bleeding or any signs of a miscarriage but the night before the ultrasound , i cried to my partner that something was wrong and that i knew it was going to go badly and sure enough it did. i am 22 and it was so hard for me to tell my parents because i was scared they would be let down and think it was a bad idea, but they were great which made me feel great. My World Came Crashing Down, a feeling i will never forget , a feeling i wish no one ever has to have.
i found out on a thursday and my Dr booked me in for a D&C on the monday. i actually wanted to die when i was in the waiting room . i thought it all went fine but i was bleeding quite heavy nd non stop for a month after the procedure so i went back to my Dr and had another ultra sound and of course just my luck , they hadn't taken it all out so i had to have another D&C . The Feeling of losing a unborn baby is horrible , the emotional shit we go through is so bad and on top of that i had the physical ! my 2nd D&C was a month ago and i want another try but im so scared it will happen again. lost empty and sad, hands down the worst experience i have ever gone through
the thing that i dont get is how do drug addict pros who live on the streets have quite healthy babies when people like us who take care of ourselves and our babies have the worst luck.
sometimes it feels like i have made this all up in my head and i was never really pregnant , then i look at my ultra sound pictures and read the NOFH ( no fetal heart beat ) then my world again comes crashing down .

i just needed to get my story out as i have no one to talk to .

i wish u guys all the best for future Pregnancies , you all sound like you would make great caring mummys

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