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Ania, I am so sorry for your loss. You will go on but you need to take as much time as you can to grieve this shock and the loss of Alicia. We are all here for you and my heart goes out to you. The only comfort I can offer you is that those of us who have experienced loss never take our babies for granted and when you are blessed again you will value your children in a way I don't think you can before something like this happens. My thoughts are with you.

ania, I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss, I lost my Isabell at 22 weeks a year ago, somehow you do go on, day by day then one day you start to look forward without realising it, life just kinda sneaks up on you? take each day as it comes, cry as much as you need to, talk to whoever you can that you feel comfortable with and understands. Come back here to talk to us, there are quite a few of us have had 2nd and 3rd tri losses, Your pain will ease xxxxxxx

ania- I'm so sorry for you loss honey. I wish I could tell you that it gets better but that would be a lie. It will always be hard when we know that our angels that should be in our arms are up in heaven. I lost my first baby also in February. I have found a amazing support group full of women that are going through the same thing. Its on cafemom.com You should really look into it and join because these amazing ladies have really helped me get through the worse times that I thought I wouldn't survive from the grief. Just know that we understand how you been and want to help you in anyway that we possibly can. I hope this website helps and like I said cafemom has a support group. you can look up my name which is the same that it is here and you can find our group TTC. Let us know how you are and if you need anything that we can provide. God Bless you and your angel baby.

Ania honey I'm sorry for your terrible loss I know exactly how you feel, most of the other ladies that have been writing you here are also my friends on the cafe Mom group but we all started here on this website..I lost my Baby Girl Destiny after her full term delivery due to negligence/malpractice, we had been trying to get pregnant for 12 years , she was born and grew wings Nov 15, 2007 , she was and is our little miracle..Anyways I came here today to offer you all my support and friendship and whatever I can do for you I'm here..Its going to be hard I'm not going to lie and with time you learn to live with the pain and heartache but it never goes away, and with time you'll see that you'll cry less and maybe even mantion your Babys name less, but then unexpectedly after months of doing so well , you will find tears coming down for no apparent reason , but your reason is your Angel , we will never forget our Angels , they are safe in the arms of Jesus and they are happy where they are but as happy as we are that they are ok and safe we still sad that we can not see them grow and we will always what the What might have been questions in our hearts...Our Angels will live forever threw us, in our hearts our souls, our thoughts and our minds and one day we will reunite again , so that finally we can raise them in heaven....Now we have to go on and live as good as posible in their Honor and memory bc I know our Angels would not like to see us defeat it and giving up on life....So you see what happen to all of us specially what happen to me has change us for ever and we grieve our little Angels everyday but we are still here living and looking forward to the future with hopfully more children to raise and love in honor of thir Angels siblings...You will with time find the strengh and you will go on , we all have , but it has taken time for us to be able to say that, so take your time, to grieve your little one and when you are ready only when you are ready , face the real world and start to dream again, believe me you will not be repacing her or forgeting her, you'll just be doing what she would have want you to do, bc your Daughter is watchin you , just like mine and Everyone elses.....Take care and again we are here..Love Vicky..

Hey Ania, how are you? ihope you come back? We are thinking of you xxxxxxxx

I am so sorry for your loss... I too lost my baby boy but I was 3 months along. Doese your hospital offer any breievement or support groups I don't even have an answer for yu just thought I'd let you know I kinda know how yu feel... Do you have a supportive husband boyfriend family someone to tak to? The only thought that keeps me going is I have a 5 & 10 y.o. & I am a mommy of 3 but my 3rd baby sleeps in heaven. Our babys may be in heaven together.

Ania, I am so sorry for your loss. I personally know that words do not take away the pain. My daughter was stillborn at 40w4d last August, also due to a cord accident. Hers was three times around her neck. It is so difficult to believe in the beginning, but the pain does ease as time goes by....it never goes away, but it lessens. It's now been almost 10 months and I miss Brooke every day, but I have also come to acceptance over her loss and I know I will see her again. I know none of this makes you feel any better...trust me I know...sometimes it's just good to share with other moms who have "been there." Feel free to drop me a line at cafemomdotcom/ksandoval84. Prayers going out to you.

Dear Ania, I cried when I, read your story , my son was born alive at 24wks and he died after 24hrs. I like you had been told everything was fine and I was actually due a check up scan the next day. The day I went into premature labour the doctor did a scan and told everything was okay and I was sent home, only to be back in hospital in 2hrs time.I wish I could tell you how one goes on after such a loss.I am so sorry about little Alicia , if I had something to say that would make you feel better I would say it, but I understand, I understand.

Ania, How are you coping , hope all is well haven't read from you, I hope you are okay.

ania: just wanted to send you my sincere condolences. I can't imagine dealing with a loss like that. I am truly sorry and hope that you heal and are able to move on from this tragedy. Give yourself time to grieve and eventually accept what happened. There are alot of ladies on these boards who have been through losses and can offer some great advice and shoulders to cry on. Take care of yourself.... Lisa

Ania, I too just lost my princess..at 28 wks she was to have been born this month (june) but my loss was due to what was believed to be gestational diabetes?? I posted a question where does the courage come from to try again? I know it's not much consolation but know that you are not alone.. the grief is immeasurable, and you may never forget but as time goes on the pain will lessen somewhat.