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STARTING OVER AFTER A D/C OR M/C 34!!!!

129 posts on this thread and the last post was on October 7th, 2009 2:51 PM
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stacyr - July 29th, 2009 11:09 PM

Hey all - Thanks SHELLY for always asking about me...Only have a minuet to post...FINALLY got my "period" (2 days bleeding) after over a year and two surgeries to correct the ashermans...June 6th - u don't know the party I threw :-) Was given green light to ttc - but road is far from over...concieving may not be too easy - and it's showing thats true as I got my period July 4th again and feel like its comming this week...Hope all is well with everyone!


creating101 - August 4th, 2009 1:09 PM

Well no baby yet, even though she was due Sunday. I go in to the hospital Wed at 7am to get induced. I am not looking forward to it cause last time I ended up throwing up the entire time and it took 2 days. I am hoping it will go smooth like my sons. Wish me luck.


buffaloaka - August 5th, 2009 2:24 PM

Hi ladies,
it has been awhile since i last posted something, but i do read everyone's post. In my mind i had come to terms with the miscarriage, but it seems that i have made little progress. The hardest part for me is the fact that i have two close friends that are due within the next 3 weeks. I want to be happy for them but i still find myself being extremly sad. I think about how far along i would be right now and sometimes i just cry. I don't want to be that friend that can't be happy for someone else because i can't get my own mess together. Yes, they know what i went through, but i feel like i can't talk to them about it because why would they want to talk about a baby not being born when they are about to deliver.

One friend and i actually work together and her baby shower is tomorrow. I just feel so disconnected when she talks about the baby or asks me to feel her stomach when the baby kicks. Oh course i want to hear the stories or feel the kicks but i just wish that i had my own stories to tell.
When will it get better? I checked my ovaluation calendar and it appears that i was ovaluating from last friday weekend until tuesday, so there may be some hope for this month. I'll keep my fingers crossed.



smmom2 - August 5th, 2009 3:39 PM

Stacy....well....what happened..did you get af again or did u get a BFP????? You cant just leave us hangin !!!! CREATING...you were induced this am....I am praying all goes well with your delivery and that is is as smooth as possible ( with no throwing up!!!) I cant wait to hear details of the new baby !! BUFFALOKA....what you are feeling is so very common....you will feel that way until you are fnally holding your baby. And even then you will still remember and cry about the one you lost. My sil got pregnant 3 months after I did.....and when I lost my baby she still kept throwing in our faces how she was feeling ill....or kicking...or whatever. Even now she loves to say that her son is older then mine...and everytime she does it I think of the baby I lost and how she would have been older and what she would have been doing. So it never goes fully away...it is a loss like any other in this world. But it does getting easier. ANd going to your friends baby shower is not something you have to do if you feel it will be to hard....but if you do go...be brave and hold your head high. I hope this is your month !!! As for me...I have been kept incredibly busyw ith school...and now Carson will be one in a week and a half. It is crazy how fast time can fly. I hope you are all doing well.... LISA ....please please please check in !!!


creating101 - August 11th, 2009 1:55 AM

Sorry it took so long to gt back to everyone but here is the story:
Went in Wed to be induced and after 10 hours they gave up ( good contractions but no dialation and only 50% softening) and let me rest and eat. It was not that bad and I did not throw up once so I was optimistic that all would go well the next day. Bright and early Thursday they hit me with the Pitocen again and by 11am I was so sick I could not think. I broke done and had the epideral. Still my little stinker would not work with us. Then my blood pressure started dropping to dangerous levels and they started talking to me about a C section. I told htem I did not care what they did but to keep my baby safe. She had no bad effects and was healthy though. Then when we were about to give up hope on her being born that day. 7:30pm I suddenly dialated to a 7 then 6 minutes later she was born. Only in 6 or 6 pushes!
A very healthy 6 pounds 14 oz ( so tiny), 20 inches long. What little hair she has is a strawberry blonde. I could not have went through this with out everyone's support! Thank you.


minii - August 18th, 2009 6:40 AM

hello all. Now i've passed three cycles after my d&c.
Now the actual time comes to try again for the most beautiful phase of life- A healthy pregnancy.
I'll be ovulating around 26th Aug, as i had my period on 13th aug. Now fingers crossed. This time i really needs a gud news. So wish me luck.


minii - August 19th, 2009 5:20 AM

Congrats creating101, for being mother of a little angel. She sounds so cute & beautiful.
I'm also trying. I don't know when i'll be lucky to have a baby. Is there any good tip to conceive quick as i dont wanna delay. plz if you kno nything just let me kno.



stacyr - September 21st, 2009 5:56 PM

MAYBE - email me nalez at live dot com...
everyone else hope all is well...


Jewlz - October 7th, 2009 2:51 PM

Hi ladies. I'm still pretty new here also haven't been back since April when I had a miscarriage. I was 5 wks 4 days when I did. I recently found out that I'm pregnant again, about 4 wks 4 days. My beta levels are at 45 and progesterone is 12. They had me come back in today for more blood work to make sure the levels at least double this time. I'm not having any cramping or spotting. I really hope this pregnancy results in a wonderful healthy baby. I'm a little nervous but staying as positive as possible. I will know tomorrow morning what the results are. Everyone please please please cross your fingers it doubles...