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3 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 20th, 2005 1:52 AM
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 | Q - September 18th, 2005 10:31 PM |
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Hey everyone, I have had two miscarriages this year and I have to say one of the hardest things so far was seeing my partner hold his sister's baby. She was saying how much they looked alike (I don't think she realized how much it was stabbing my heart....) and I just can't wait to try again in a few months so I can see my partner with our baby. It's so frustrating some days. He looked so cute holding the baby, and now all I see are newborns with their dads... anyways, I just needed to vent to anyone who would listen and understand. thanks

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 | Alison - September 19th, 2005 2:46 AM |
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Q I totally understand it breaks my heart to see daddy's with their babies-(many of our friends just now). My DH's sister also recently had a baby boy. We haven't seen her in person yet as she lives in a different part of the country but I know when we do it will be hard. For your partner's sister to talk about how the baby looks like your partner must have so hard for you and seems insensitive to me after your recent losses-I'm so sorry. I have suffered 3 miscarriages and my heart goes out to you. I pray you will conceive very soon and have your own precious baby in your arms-Take care xxx

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 | Sann - September 19th, 2005 11:38 AM |
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Hi Girls - I know how you feel ....My hubby has that "same" face too whenever he sees other men holding their baby. Wish I can ttc asap but I have to wait at least 1 cycle cos the lab test of our "baby" was not very +ve, they were not able to find out why I miscarried. Anyway,let's us not feel down .... you ladies picked me when I read your replies (when I first miscarried 3 weeks ago), it felt like the end of the world for & you girls were very +ve (Sure a blessing to me) ! Cheer up! I'm sure God will bless us with healthy babies very soon. God bless & take care.

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 | js - September 20th, 2005 1:52 AM |
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I am glad you have a good relationship with you S-I-L as I probably would have slapped her for saying something like that in front of me. But that's my relationship... Q - I have been there so many times I hate to think on it. I have lost 4. The hardest time was the last one, I had an ectopic and lost my right tube. Got the whole breifing of how not likely getting pregnant again would be (with my history) the whole 9 yards... A month later we went home because of my dh's grandfather's passing. His cousin was not there because she was 9 months pregnant. At the wake she called to say she gave birth. Everyone in the family was so happy and so excited - I just wanted to crawl in a hole and die. What you are feeling is perfectly normal. 4 years later, I am finally pregnant again. Give yourself some time and know that when the time is right - it will be your turn. Keep the faith!

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