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Grief

1 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 9th, 2005 9:12 PM
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fiona - September 9th, 2005 6:22 PM
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i was 10 weeks pregnant,when i miscarried.I had a DAND C two days ago,for the first day i felt nothing and today i just cry for no reason.My husband is finding it very hard.any advice how to deal with the grief


Val - September 9th, 2005 9:12 PM

hi Fiona... I'm so sorry for your loss. I cried a lot the first week after my d&c on 8/3. It gradually got better. Just allow yourself to be sad and to be angry, and let time pass... I promise you'll feel better. Talking to other people helped me a lot - I was able to realize how common miscarriage is, and how it's completely possible to have a miscarriage and still go on to have a healthy pregnancy later. Just be good to yourself and ask your husband to let you grieve- it's natural and it's the best thing to do. Good luck to you... hugs...V