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Plz Help 2 Miscarriages In A Row Can Anyone Relate

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kristie - March 6th, 2006 9:06 PM
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Hi, I have a 13 month old son just recently went through my 2nd miscarriage in a row i was 5.3 weeks prenant and on my 1st miscarriage i found out on my 12 week scan which was a partial molar pregnancy. I waited the 6 months i was ment to after the mole pregnancy then fell pregnant this year in feb 06 which was a complete miscarriage. My question is is there anyone here that has sufferd 2 miscarriages in a row and have gone on to have sucsesfull pregnancy?


kristie - March 6th, 2006 11:51 PM

hi ladys. Can sum1 plz reply. Me and hubby want ttc straight and i just want to hear your stories.


JuJu - March 7th, 2006 12:43 AM

Kristie; I found out today that I am m/c for the 2nd time - my first m/c was early Jan this year. I am devastated; and it still hasn't really hit me yet :( I am so sorry to hear that you have also had 2 m/c's - it's heartbreaking. How long since your 2nd m/c?


JuJu - March 7th, 2006 12:47 AM

Kristie; also meant to say that yup; it's definitely highly likely that both you and I will go on to have bubs in our arms :) My sister-in-law and my mum both had 3 mc's in a row - and both went on to have babies. We need to keep positive; and I am sure things will work out for us. As hard as this is; it's worth the heartache to have those new littlre babies. We are both lucky that we have a baby (my DD is 16 months) - what a blessing they are!! Anyway, hope you're doing ok-



kristie - March 7th, 2006 4:28 AM

Hi Juju, Sorry to hear your loss and i did lost my second pregnancy on the 18th of feb and i was 5 weeks and 3 days how far were u? It's a good reasurance to hear that ppl have had repeated miscarriages and have gone on to have healthy full term pregnancy at the end of the day thats what keeps me going for thirds. If u need to talk to sumone plz get back to me lost of luck kristie.


JuJu - March 7th, 2006 5:21 AM

Kristie; well it's 11.18pm and crying myself to sleep didn't work, so here I am at the computer. It's defintiely tough the 2nd time around :( I was supposed to be 7w2d but my baby stopped developing a couple of days ago - no heart-beat. You WILL have a baby Kristie- unfortunately you and I are a couple of sad statistics. I already have a 16 month-old DD; poor little thing isn't quite sure what's wrong with her mummy at the moment ...... today was hard; hopefully tomorrow will be better.


ladyle - March 7th, 2006 5:49 AM

Hi Kristie, i had 2 miscarriage in a row 2, one in november i found out by a scan i was 12 weeks 2. And 1 about 5 weeks ago, i just found out aswel, i just bled when i was 5 weeks but my cervix where closed, but there is something in the back out my mind that i'm still pregnant. I'm sorry to hear of our loss but don't worry if it's ment to be IT WILL.


kristie - March 7th, 2006 5:53 AM

To JuJu, I no what u mean about your poor lil daughter. I feel sorry for my son and i just wish he could undrsatnd why i am like i am at the moment and all i do is take it out on him by yelling which i wish i didnt do. If your keep having trouble sleeping u should see a doc. After my 1st miscarriage i had to go on depression tablets so i no what u are going through. Here ill give u my email add and we shall keep in touh hebbardk@msn.com



snickelfritz - March 7th, 2006 7:56 AM

I can relate. I have a 10 month old son and will be having a D&C tomorrow (at 12w6d) with my 2nd m/c since my son was born. I had my first m/c at 5.5 weeks just three months after my son was born. Now, I'm dealing with my 2nd. My OB assured me that there is absolutely no reason I shouldn't be able to have another successful pg, but I'll admit... I'm terrified. Since my first was so early, I didn't really feel a huge sense of loss, but with this pg it was a different story. We'd had an u/s just before 8 weeks that showed the baby measuring beautifully with a lovely heartbeat. I even have the u/s picture that actually looks like a baby! But sadly, I'll never get to meet him. There are several ladies on my other message board who have had children after recurrent pg loss. In fact, one of my friends is pg with her 8th child... but her 15th pg. I'm just thankful that my OB is taking this very seriously and has pretty much demanded to know as soon as I get pg again so that they can be EXTRA cautious (and even agressive) in making sure the next pg sticks. Good luck. Try not to stress. TTC when you're ready and if you need to talk, we're all here.


Kim L - March 7th, 2006 11:11 AM

Hi ladies: i'm so sorry for your losses, I know first hand how terrible it is. I also had 2 consecutive miscarriages and now am pregnant with #3. All is well so far and we are the farthest we've ever been. Good luck to you!


Cabbie - March 7th, 2006 11:34 AM

Kristie, I have suffered three miscarriages in a ten month time period (Aug 04, Oct 04, June 05)after conceiving two healthy babies prior (had to use clomid to have them). I am currently starting week 27 with this one and all is well so far. My prognosis appeared to be low progsterone. I started progesterone at week 4 through 14. They also believe the clomid I took with my daughters raised my progesterone levels to help me sustain my successful pregnancies. JuJu, I am so sorry to hear about your news today. I'll be thinking of you. My miscarriages were at 6w, 5w, and a blighted ovum diagnosed at 10w.


Lynne - March 7th, 2006 11:35 AM

Hi there kristie:
I am sorry for your losses. I was on a website and saw an advertisement for a product that is suppose to help with preventing a miscarriage. I don't know anything about effectiveness but I did click on the link to learn about it. i think it was called ovulex. I found the link on mycycle.com that is the site I use to track my ovulation. Maybe you could read up on this product and see if it would be right for you. -L


Kristine - March 7th, 2006 8:01 PM

Hi Kristie, i've had 2 m/c's in a row in 2005, both with no hb's at 7 weeks. I am now almost 5 weeks along and taking progesterone and baby aspirin and hoping for the best. Lynne mentioned Ovulex. I have read on other threads that Ovulex may contain black cohosh which can cause miscarriage. Please read the ingredients carefully. Baby dust to al!!


SuzieQ - March 8th, 2006 12:19 AM

I'm sorry to hear about all the losses - I've had two m/c's in a row and am pregnant again at 10w2d - just basically praying at this point. One of my coworkers had two m/c's in a row and then gave birth to a healthy little girl in December :)


Bethpi - March 9th, 2006 10:09 AM

hi ladies,
I just had a 2nd m/c this past Friday -the first was Aug 05 and I am just waiting to start trying again...my Dr told me not to give up. My friend had 6- yes 6! m/c and finally had a baby girl! Just remember- it's natures way of taking care of a pregnancy that has a genetic disorder. -that's the way I look at it and it helps me -some what. JuJu- I am so sorry...I know what you are going through...it is heartbreaking. I was so excited that I got pregnant the 2nd time around so quickly..and all my hopes smashed at my first doctor visit when they didn't see a heart beat- I was supposed to be 10 weeks and it only measured at 6 weeks.
just know you are not alone!


rnbsn2001 - March 11th, 2006 9:15 AM

Hi, I have had 2 miscarriages within a year both being a blighted ovum. Has anyone else had this and gone on to have a successful pregnancy?


headeranne - March 12th, 2006 10:06 PM

hi kristie, i have gone through 3 miscarriages in less than a year and just found out that i am pregnant again. my levels are dropping however but now they are concerned that it is ectopic because the u/s showed what looked like a fetal pole near my right ovary. for all of my miscarriages i was between 5 and 7 weeks. i have been through all sorts of testing and am going through more. people tell you to be positive and it will happen but it is hard to think that when it keeps happening. you already have one child so you know you can carry,i don't even know if i can carry as i have not had one succesful one yet. i am hoping to but it is devastating. i hope everything works out for you. all statistics say you will go on to have a healthy pregnancy for the next one and most likely will but i have yet to follow those statistics. i hope this didn't bring you down at all just wanted to let you know where i have been the past year to maybe give you some hope and know that you are lucky to have at least the one you have.