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Wondering If This Could Happen Again

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 15th, 2008 11:32 PM

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mishu - June 8th, 2008 6:42 AM

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I lost my beautiful angel at 21 weeks 2months ago i was feeling so sad that at sometimes thought i should join my baby. I had no support from anyone and nobody understood how i felt till i read some of the posts and it helped me tremendously to share the grieve of others. during my pregnancy i had an ultra sound and found out that my baby has been dead for few days. I had an induced labor and the Dr. told me that the cord was twised by the baby therefore no nutrients were able to reach him. I never heard of that before. I want to know is this because of something i did and is it likely to happen again?

tuesdaypm - June 9th, 2008 12:02 PM

Hi Mishu, It is 10 million% nothing you did! Cord accidents do happen, I am so so sorry for your loss, I lost my dd at 22 weeks due to ic, how are you coping? Hugs xxxxxxxxxx

Brook May - June 15th, 2008 11:32 PM

Hie Mishu, I lost my baby at 24wks and at first I thougth it was my fault just like you feel, but it is not your fault, these are events we have no control over and the most painful thing is we cannot do anything about. Do not think about joining baby (Suicide) it is not the answer your partner needs you, the after life is uncertain, how do you know for sure that you will see your baby? It hurts to loss a baby when everybody around is having normal pregnacy but that is the way life is. We just have to cope some how and move on.

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