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Thanks for the advice. So, I call my Dr. and she says to WAIT! wait for what?? She said to just wait until I start my period and says it's probably stress. I still don't have symptoms but still feel extremely tired all the time. I guess I'll just wait a couple more weeks? And do I have to go to a specialist to find out if it's a cyst? I don't have insurance yet, so that's my main problem as well.

Hi Everyone - MEGAN, I understand totally how you feel!!!!!!!!!! I've been feeling very depressed lately myself. I've wanted a child for many years now and I was devastated when I lost my first to miscarriage at 9wks in 2004. My baby would have been one in March, I have other friends due in March and whose babies turn 1 and while I am happy for them, it eats me up! Also, 23rd of Feb is the birthday of my best friend (he died 4/12 yrs ago). On top of that just got Neg blood test no.4. and I'm almost 3mths late with a range of positve and negative urine tests. Not to mention that my clothes don't fit anymore because of the beachball I'm carrying. I've got a fertility specialist appointment on Wednesday so hopefully he can get to the bottom of it. It's ridiculous when you are generally a 26 - 28 day cycle girl and now I'm on day 72 It's really frustrating!

To Megan... Thank you for the kind words and it must be very frustrating for you... I will keep my fingers and toes crossed for you!

To Anna... I understand how you feel about waiting, not knowing is killing me and I have to wait another week! I dont think you have to see a specialist about a cyst, the doctor should be able to do some tests to find out if you have one if you are not pregnant. Good luck and let us know how you get on!!

Also, good luck Marian!! Hope it goes well and you get the results that you want!!

I'll keep you all posted!

after viewing this site and reading posts month after month, i'm beginning to wonder how much we as a whole really know whats going on! Everything seems to be a mystery and doctors are guessing. Do men ever have as many difficulties or are we as women more sensitive and cause our own stress about it? I guess we can never mess with human nature, whats meant to be , is meant to be, im gonna hope that all goes well for everyone here and baby wishes for all who are ttc, and good-luck , take care............megan

Wow Mandy, amazing story thank you so much for posting it... I feel like I am going crazy! I feel pregnant but tests are all neg. Had AF but lasted less than 48 hours. And my boobs still feel like they have been injected with lead! I still have the same symptoms i had with my other pregnancy that i misscarried at 5 weeks. Slight nausea, heartburn, I'm hungry but i cant finish a plate. I feel full all the time. I just keep burping! I have never suffered from indigestion for this long. I have had symptoms for a little over 2 weeks now. I even have abdominal cramps. My breasts have all these blue veins on them... You can even see the veins under the areola. I know I am pregnant! If I am not something is VERY wrong with me... My friends keep telling me that it is all in my head and that if I were pregnant it would have showed up on the tests... I am so happy I came across this forum. It gives hope when everyone around seems to think you are crazy! Best wishes to all!

may....
could you have had implantation bleeding and not a/f, in that case you'd get a pos test in about 10 days, the body is our mystery hey! good luck and keep us posted

I am still getting negative HPT's. I was due for a period January 25th, and it never came. Usually, a few days before my period, I get cramps. I didn't in January. But now AF is due around Feb. 23rd, and I have started getting mild cramps today. These past couple of weeks I have been having some CD, but more than I ever have. I have been taking Dollar Tree tests and I keep thinking I see a faint line, but I am pretty sure it is my imagination. My husband and I have been TTC since October, and it's getting emotional getting my hopes up. I am constantly picking at my body trying to find symptoms, so naturally, when I had a missed period, I was thrilled! But after today I am not so sure! I have a few relatives that have fertility problems, and am hoping I am not going through the same thing. My husband was constantly put on steroids for different things when he was a child, and I have heard that this can make you sterile. I am so worried, and I am praying AF doesn't come in the next few days.

Hello! I woke up this morning and I went to the toilet and there is light spotting, it isnt like a period, I have no cramping, just a brown / pink discharge. I also felt really sick and struggled to hold my cereal down. Feeling even more sure about pregnancy now... we will see!

I really hate this wating game. SMR my thoughts are with you darling! Megan, that is what I think is going on... I have an easy AF, usually 3 days but never less than 48 hrs. Woke up this morning and again i felt like a truck had run over my chest! I am having a hard time breathing normally and find myself out of breath doing the slightest thing... I even get full eating a grilled cheese sandwich and having hot chocolate. (And I have alot of apetite usually!) I stopped bleeding 3 days ago now, so i will wait another week, as suggested. My brest still feels huge, even though I lost a bit of weight and the veins are still bright and blue. I am due for a pap test so I am going to take an apt with my OBGYN. If anyone can answer my questions it will be her. I was blessed with a good doctor! Best wishes to all of you!

well to all...
I have to keep you posted! A/F came today and I really cant help but feel defeated! I am destroyed month after month and I've chosen to give up on my efforts because the emotional toll just isnt worth it to me anymore. We've been aiming to have our kids no more than 3 years apart, we've already exceeded that and after having lost the second at 3 months along, I have no energy to be concerned about whether or not im timing my sex right or not. Im not willing to go to fertility treatment as we have very many sets of triplets in our family and guess who's next in line. I dont know what else to try, we've tried the cough syrup the tilt of the pelvis, the c/m monitoring the bbt, anyone have any suggestions this last cycle will be my last ditch effort before i retire my efforts. Im very tired of the tears every month when A/F comes. Thank-you to all! good luck to you!................Megan

Hi all...Im new to the site, but have been reading everyones stories all day long at work!! I doubt I got very much done today : ) My story is quite similar to most of you guys. Ive actually had an irregular cycle before, thats nothing new to me. Was put on BC to regulate, which worked....While on BC I got prego with my DS almost 3 years ago(In their defense I was prolly not taking them as I should). I had a molar pregnancy over a year ago and found out when I was 8 weeks along. My cycle has been normal since then, and without regular BC use as I stopped taking them a while back, even before that pregnancy. Well my last period was from Dec 10-15,16. Had pretty bad cramping like AF was going to start right around late Jan/early Feb..like so bad I was sure I would start any minute so I was in the bathroom checking and wiping constantly!! NOTHING...Now it is Feb 20 and no sign of AF. Took 2 HPT, both BFN. Ive got tender, almost throbbing breasts, EXTREME hunger..seems like Im hungry again after 30 or so, some back pain(not much), feel bloated and a lil crampy, cant tell if im using the bathroom more freq or not as I drink quite a bit of fluids throughout the day anyway, definite signs os tiredness...i cant seem to get enough sleep. Funny my husband has also been experiencing those "sympathy symptoms"..lol...extreme tiredness. He had this with all the pregnancies, but Im just not sure with this one because our whole household kinda had colds within the last month as well. Ive definitely read a lot of hopeful entries on here, so I am just praying that I can be one of those as well. Ive been putting off another test, just trying to give my cycle time to come on, as I said I was irregular before. Honestly tho, I think I am just scared of the answer....I am ready for another little one and would be disappointed if it didnt turn out that way...not to mention all the other possible issues that this could turn out to be. I just dont know what to do at this point : (

Okay, so, I haven't had a "normal" period since November 15th. Nothing came in December. I had this very light and pink "bleeding" for 6 days in January. It was only when I wiped. In February, I had even lighter "bleeding" than that for 3 days. It was barely noticeable. I am getting negatives on all te HPTs. I am wondering if I could be pregnant, even with 5 negatives. I have not been to the doctor because I don't have a way of going. I am getting bigger, and I have had most of the symptoms that I have read about. Please tell me what you think.

INEZ....anything is possible, im curious as to how old you are? because you should be able to get in to see a doc, if you were to prego you need some prenatal care. AS far as periods go my whole life i've had a real light period (coloring on the tp when i wipe ) and only 2-3 days long and that was it, after my first born it got even lighter, consider yourself lucky..lol... some girls have to sit near a bathroom for a week or two so needless to say it sounds like you need an ultrasound or pelvic exam, if your of a younger age there are pregnancy crisis or planned parenthood clinics.. confide in someone you trust be it a friends mom or dad or older sister that will keep your matter private...good luck..take care

I am 18 years old and want to be pregnant. I just don't want to get mine or my mother's hopes up. I should be able to go to the health department next week. I am taking prenatal vitamins, just in case. That is the only thing I know I can do right now. I just have to see if my fiance can borrow his mother's car for one day next week. It has to be on a day that my mother is only babysitting one child though. I always have to help her babysit. We usually babysit 2 kids a day during the week.

Thats is! I am giving up on hpt!!! Another negative this morning... And me who loves pizza I cant even down a slice for lunch!!! The thought of a pizza is so repusing right now... Waiting for my Dr. apt on March 8. I think at this point I am more worried as to what is wrong if I am not pregnant. Megan, God sometimes gives us gifts when we least expect it! Have faith and enjoy the act rather make it a mission to conceive. I know this is probably not helping but my thoughts are with you. Inez i am crossing my fingers for you too... **baby dust**

Megan... I am so sorry to hear that! I think I came on my period last week, but I am still going to docs tomorrow to be sure as I still have the symptoms. I hope you soon feel better and I wish you the best of luck for the future! x