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Should I Even Be Concerned?.....:[

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on February 7th, 2006 1:37 PM
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unsure20 - February 7th, 2006 6:07 AM
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Hey girls :)

So here's my story. My boyfriend and I have been using condoms as birth control. We had sex last Sunday without protection, but he pulled out. Then on Wednesday we had sex, and he didn't pull out. This was all totally unplanned. He ended up telling me he came alot (the 2nd unprotected time). Anyways, this is the first time I've EVER had unprotected sex. I'm 20 and so scared. I was looking forward to turning 21 in May, but today I've become OBSESSED with researching online. I can't sleep because I'm so nervous. I found out that the days I had sex on w/out a condom, were my fertile times(according to the conception calculators online). I am very irregular with my period (sometimes 2/3/4 months, sometimes 28 days). So needless to say I don't keep track of when I have my period, and before this instance I've never really felt the need to. I have a pregnancy test (fact plus) but says it's only accurate 14 days after conception, or a few days after your miss your period. Basically, I was trying to figure out if I should just call my OBGYN and schedule to have a blood test done, and not even bother with this over the counter test. Any advice?....; /

Heather - February 7th, 2006 7:39 AM

Well I would get a blood test, but they are not always accurate. If you dont want to be pregnant you can go to planned parenthood and get a morning after pill. Good luck!


unsure20 - February 7th, 2006 1:37 PM

Thanks for your response, Heather. I've thought about going to get the morning after pill, but we can't decide if it's the "right" thing to do....plus couldn't I already be pregnant? Also, if I did take that pill, and I did end up getting pregnant(cuz it's not the morning after, it's the week after now), would it have major health effects on the baby? My boyfriend keeps asking me, "We're gonna stick with it babe, right?"