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Anyone Hate Being Pregnant???

102 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 29th, 2009 10:21 PM
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tinalaferte - December 17th, 2008 9:46 PM

When I first found out I was pregnant I was surprised! I was never that sick in my whole entire life. Throwing up every where and anywhere. Goign to work sick and coming home sick. I couldn't eat anything! I hated it the first 3 months. I'm 21 weeks now and I like being pregnant, I'm not saying I love it cause I miss the things I used to be able to do. It's hard to adjust to being pregnant, but once I heard my baby's heart beat and found out what I am having, I feel more happier at the moment.


Santana0409 - December 18th, 2008 8:56 AM

I can't say that I hate it, it is wierd seeing my body change so much so fast. I've always been a pretty little girl so seeing my belly stick out is kinda unusal and my boobs are HUGE. I just have to remind myself that I'm not fat for no reason my son is in there and when he comes out I can have my body back. It can be tough but I'm sure you'll get through it.


LUCKI LADI - January 24th, 2009 1:24 PM

SO FAR MY PREGNANCY HAS BEEN EXCELLENT. NO MORNING SICKNESS AT ALL N IM STILL ENERGETIC. I KNOW THAT ONCE I GO INTO LABOR THATS PROBABLY WHERE I WILL GET ALL THE PAIN BUT I LOVE BEING 20 WEEKS N MY SON IS DUE JUNE 9



Missie76 - January 24th, 2009 10:49 PM

Just wait till you start feeling your baby move, I was like you, I hated the MS, the sore boobs. But at 25 weeks now and feeling my baby kick, it's the most awesome feeling in the worl!


sherriebabie - January 25th, 2009 6:04 PM

right about now i hate being pregnant !!
u never know might have a change of heart later on lol


tmontrelj - January 26th, 2009 3:47 PM

I felt the same way until just recently. I mean, I am still counting the days til I'm not pregnant anymore. I feel like a totally different person too. It all be worth it in the end though!!!!


Candice95567 - January 28th, 2009 10:02 PM

Your not alone my dear. My pregnancy was a complete accident... just lost 40 lbs over the summer, and not looking forward to my body changing once again!!!! Plus the aches, pains, and throwing up day and night.... It is just no fun. Dont you just wish you could borrow someone elses uterus for the next 6 months!?



Vivi - February 14th, 2009 1:16 AM

I am on my 3rd and have lost all my late 20s to pregnancy!!
I miss my own personal body freedom!I have to spend my 30th b.day in maternity clothes having a boring get together!
I would much rather wear a hot outfit and go dancing!!
I feel u!I hate being pregnant!


TahliasMama - February 14th, 2009 7:08 AM

reading this thread, i can totally relate. i loved my first two pregnancies (i have two girls) and this time around i'm having a crap time! do you think it could be the hormones? (we are having a boy this time).
Vivi - i am in the same boat as you!! my bubs is due june 4th, and my 30th birthday is may 30th.... i have been planning my 30th for years as i never had a proper 21st!!! i like the way you put it about losing your late 20's to pregnancy! lol


M.Sosa - February 21st, 2009 11:58 AM

I cannot say that I hate it but I definately could do without the nausea, fatigue and the endless trips to the bathroom! But knowing that there is a tiny growing human being inside of me makes it all worth it!


basiawil - March 10th, 2009 3:05 PM

I can definately relate. For almost 3 months I had a pretty bad morning sickness. I am carrying twins so I felt extremely tired in the first trimester as well. It gets a little better afterwards as far as tiredness but different symptoms follow. My advice to you is- try to take it easy, this too shall pass :)) Eat healthy, try to stay active, take good rest.


M.Sosa - March 10th, 2009 4:42 PM

Oh, it has definately gotten better except for the trips to the bathroom! LOL!


EricaB - March 11th, 2009 6:41 PM

Christine, you are hilarious. I just read your post on page one, and I had to read it out loud to my husband. How crazy is this experience? I am only 14 weeks, and due to a gigantic fibroid have had a large belly for many weeks! Everyone at work keeps staring at my shirt, and asking to see it. I haven't had anyone pull on my shirt or physically contact me yet, thank goodness. I'm sure it will start up soon! I most certainly will respond the way you did, Christine! If they want to bare their stomachs for me, I may do the same. Otherwise, my belly is not up for grabs!


EricaB - March 11th, 2009 6:52 PM

Brooke, what do you mean by shark-infested waters? Did something particular happen to you at work? Your advice and warnings are much appreciated...


jlecabwit - March 31st, 2009 3:08 PM

I would say I do not hate being pregnant but at the sametime I agree with all of you. I am going to be 18 weeks on April 20 and my body is changing, i feel i am looking more ugly on the out side but beautiful in the inside. You guys know what I mean? I have to use a special soap when i take a shower, or even when i wash my clothes. I get pimples and my face is geting fatter. I have to watch my foods and sometimes i like the foods i ate but not anymore. You have to get back to the size just to make sure your man/husband or even trying to look good to get someone. Sometimes i am scared because it changes you but also it changes the father of the child as well, it could be good or it could be bad, such as my ex of my first child, it made him change in way that we broke up. Or if you want to go hang out you cant go to bars to just chill out even if you do not drink [ it make you a bad person as what people tell me. Or try to express your man of how sexy you look but in there eyes who knows if they think the same way... There are so many more but it just hard everyone etc.. your bones began to crack, and pain begans to created


EricaB - March 31st, 2009 4:19 PM

This process of pregnancy is so beautiful, and so weird too. I am still going through the love/hate thing also. I'm nearly 17 weeks now, and need to wear all special clothes. There are two weddings I'm in, one in May and one in AUGUST, and I am having to dish out a lot of money for gigantic and ugly dresses. I'll never wear them again! I'm hoping my husband doesn't change too much with this pregnancy and baby business. I love him the way he is now! However, he admits the belly scares him, as it's growing so fast. He just looks at it with a weird expression. He says that not all men love the look of pregnant women... can you believe it? Just take the compliments people give you, and hang on to them. When my husband looks at me in that weird way, I think of other men and women at work that say "there is nothing more beautiful than a pregnant woman". It makes me feel better about the whole thing.