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Feeling Ugly And Very LARGE

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 20th, 2004 7:43 AM
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LOLA - September 18th, 2004 10:25 PM
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I'm 14 weeks pregnant and I've become the most insecure woman on the face of the planet.My boyfriend owns a nightclub and is around BIG boobed,skinny,blondes on the weekends.I've now got it drilled into my head that he goes there to see them and is probably f#!$ing them in his office.Is it right for me to feel this insecure of him???PLEASE someone help me find the answer!Or what to do!


FAY - September 19th, 2004 1:10 PM

Hi Lola, I am 12 weeks and I am very large too. Though my husband does not work in a night club, I also feel that he does not find me attractive sometimes. Look at the way he acts towards you.. Is he interested in this pregnancy? Does he smell fishy when you gets home?

You shoulden't feel insecure, unless he is giving you a reason. I am sure that he loves you, and respect that you are carrying his child. Don't let those fake boobed woman get to you. Take advantage of the fact that your boobs are getting large now too, put on a nice alfit, and go to the club yourself too.. Enjoy your pregnancy, and don't stress yourself out. I feel that pregnant woman are sexier than the bimbos in the club. Have a positive attitude, and like I said enjoy this.... Good luck


Anya - September 20th, 2004 7:43 AM

I too felt that my other half had gone off me, we wernt having as good a time as usual, Someone advised me to talk to him, and it turned out that he was afraid of hurting the baby, he didnt understand that sex during pregnancy was ok, we had a talk, i showed him some articles about it, and we are now back on top of things so to speak. I know its very generic advise, but chat to him and let him know how your feeling, if you need to talk anya101@hotmail.com is where I can be reached. Good luck :)