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she just tells me she feels fat and yuck (which is crazy) she is sooo beautiful and i just miss making love with her and seeing her nude even

Let me start by saying that you are doing NOTHING wrong. I know that it's hard for a man to think about all of the changes that happen to a woman when she's pregnant, but there's physical, emotional, and mental changes. She is getting bigger, even if only a little, but she notices even if nobody else does. Some women are insecure to start with, but it gets worse during pregnancy. Women are hormonal during pregnancy, it isn't you or anything you've done. I would say to just support her as much as you can, if she makes comments about being fat or yucky or anything like that, just tell her that to you she's beautiful and that you love her. I have a little girl and this is my boyfriends first child and there are times that I feel the way that your wife feels (it's natural)..and I've found that the thing that helps me is when he just looks at me and smiles and tells me how beautiful I am. He is always touching my stomach, kissing it, talking to the baby. I would also say to give her a little bit of time, some women after a certain point in the pregnancy start to feel better about themselves and feel great and sexy again. I wish that I could help more. Congratulations on the baby.

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I am going to be 18 weeks on april 20th, and I am so depressed because i feel alone. My boyfriend got layoff and he got hired in Orlando Flordia for three months. It hard for me because he there and i am in Michigan. I am staying with my parents until he get back but i am sad becuase he not going to be in the second trimster which is the part we find out what we having and he not going to be there. Also it the momment that i have to get area ready and i do not know where i am going to put it while we are in a moving stage, I trust him and stuff but with being pregnant my hormonal are changing and i just get so mad becauase he not here and i do not know what he doing. You know what i mean. Sometime i wish he could at least wait until the baby is born and stay on unemployment while i work too, and my oldest daughter and the baby and him could just go move. I am scared because i feel we are falling apart because i so upset but putting pressure on him as i feel because i am so depressed and he wants me to be happy. I do not know how to be happy while i feel my family is falling apart from each other. Sometimes i just think he out dranking find some hot girl while i am fat and ugly here. Can anyone help me? I do not want to put stress on the baby but i miss him and alonly.