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6 posts on this thread and the last post was on July 23rd, 2006 8:33 PM
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pdx007 - July 7th, 2006 1:04 PM
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All right! I need some answers! This is kind of a long story so I will try to make it short. A girl had sex with me. I used a condom. However, i don't know if the condom fell off during sex or when she got off on top of me! It was still in her vagina! I also didn't orgasm. She claims that she had unprotected sex with her new boyfriend a WEEK later! Now she is prego. So what are the damn chances of the baby being mine? i really didn't want my first born to be an accident! Now I feel really bad and really worried because I am a 24 year old who can barley afford himself, let alone a little guy/girl running around? I am really scared. I know there is pre-cum but I have heard so many stories about what pre-cum is. Some say it has no sperm in it, but if you orgasmed and didn't go to the bathroom and had sex again...there could be some sperm still left in the penis! What is the TRUE answer? What is the TRUE answer on the chances of getting prego with a condom on that fell off and the only thing that came out was pre-cum? Could the condom could of still blocked off anything even though it might of slipped off in the vagina during sex? I know it had spermicide on it! ARG! I am so confused! Please help before I start to go crazy!

Thank you.


Rockstar89 - July 8th, 2006 3:25 PM

Hello. Do you mean the condom fell off but was still in the girl's vagina? And pre-cum does has sperm in it, if you mean the condom fell off completely then yes, pre-cum may have got into her and could make her pregnant.


Soontobemom - July 9th, 2006 9:12 AM

Yes, Rockstar89 is correct. Pre-cum does contain spern however if the condom had spermacide I think the chances of you being the father is slim. It most likely is the guy she had unprotected sex with. Wait until baby is born and get a paternity test (find out how much they are and start saving up).. this way you can know for sure right after baby is born.

pdx007 - July 9th, 2006 9:24 PM

Yes, the condom fell off and the condom was still in her vagina. Yes, the condom had spermicide on it. I know the chances seem to be very slim and the odds seem to be laying on the other guy. However, I am still REALLY worried. It is always on my mind! I just didn't want my first born to be an accident! I hate just thinking about that!


Emma2 - July 10th, 2006 3:04 PM

Yes, pre-ejaculate MAY...key word MAY contain sperm. The chances are not that great that its yours. Why don't you ask her when the 1st day of her last period was and someone can help you more with this. Otherwise wait for a paternity test. GL

tulipbaroo - July 23rd, 2006 7:10 AM

I wouldn't worry about it too much. It was only precum, and the condom DID have spermicide. The odds are that the other guy is responsible.. I hope everything turns out well.

pdx007 - July 23rd, 2006 8:33 PM

Thanks a lot people! I feel a lot better asking you these questions. I don't know, I just want to be responsible and so that is why I am asking all of these questions. Thanks again!