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How To Deal With My Wife

4 posts on this thread and the last post was on March 14th, 2009 4:21 PM

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gauravgi - March 11th, 2009 10:49 AM

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I am married for almost 2 years now but never could do anal sex with my spouse once problem is that she had almost

no hole in her vagina we went to a gynacologist she operated her and made her ok but then too my wife could not bear

the pain of intercourse her pain is intolerable when I try to enter inside her I also use some oil tec as

lubricants to make her comfertable but all in vain we once again to our docter she examined her again and said that

she is ok but she is not able to bear the pain we once tried another method of sex we used to masterbate and at the

time of orgasm I use to somehow go inside her a little bit and ejaculate inside her is pregnency possible through

this method and please tell me how to cope up with such a girl now it's enough for me is it possible to seperate

from her on this ground we both are not enjoying our married life anymore I know this is very harsh on her but I

have no alternate if she does not supports me now please help me

clindholm - March 11th, 2009 12:48 PM

What exactly is your question? Can you conceive a child or is it right to leave your wife?

Where you not aware of her physical limitations prior to marriage?

There are ways to conceive a child without engaging in traditional sex, i.e IUI, IVF.
If you are thinking of leaving her b/c you are unhappy with your sex life, there are creative ways to become satisified but if that is not enough for you, maybe you should seperate b/c you would more than likely make her miserable whining about it for years to come.

bassfisher74133 - March 13th, 2009 9:58 AM

i guess when you said sickness and in health you did not mean it... seriously you once loved this girl enough to desire sharing your life with her and not because of the sex but because of the love… I hope you understand that finding Love is way more important then finding Sex… You may choose to find someone that can give you the best sex ever but will they be able to give you Love or more important can you give Love without sex??? I don’t mean to sound like a jerk but seriously

clindholm - March 13th, 2009 2:38 PM

Way to go bassfisher! You sound like quite a catch, pardon the pun, lol.

Malica - March 14th, 2009 4:21 PM

You should go back to the doctor. If sex is still to painful for her, that's not normal and needs to be investigated further.

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