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Orgasm Question

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 29th, 2008 2:16 PM
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shaylyn - December 26th, 2008 8:43 PM
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Well, I will start off with saying how I know most men get upset if they have to end intercourse without reaching an orgasm...

but my boyfriend is always trying to hold off and hold off and then he will randomly just decide that he is finished and the sex is over. Now, don't worry about me; i get mine everytime it's him that i'm worried about.

I mean i love it when he holds off for a little while; that gives me time to get mine but after that i will keep going to let him finish and then 10 minutes later; he needs a drink; or he is tired; or he has to pee or ....something...and when he comes back he dosen't even want to finish.

Now, I know he isn't running to the bathroom to jackoff; i've mentioned that and asked why some guys find that pleasurable and he said he didn't know because he don't do that; well i knew that but i figured if that was his new thing he would have mentioned it.

But he seems to be perfectly alright with not reaching orgasm...but i don't feel as happy about it. Is this even normal?

Jezebel - December 28th, 2008 5:00 PM

that used to happen to me with my exhusband. i couldnt understand why either but eventually i found a bottle of viagra and he confessed he had been using it. he would go forever and still not ejaculate. he would get tired it would take so long lol. he did have to drink a lot of water when he was using it too, it gave him heartburn. i'm not saying this is what is going on w/your bf but it's a possibility.

C2 - December 29th, 2008 2:16 PM

I can relate to that. My guy would get off but I just couldnt. My reasoning was being shy of HOW I like to get off and worried that he'd think it was weird and get turned off, but when I finnally had the guts to tell him i was able to join him. Your BF might just have different needs sexually than whats "normal". my guess(besides the viagra thing)he get's frustrated and gave up cause of being seriously tired, or the insecure and doubting thoughts enters his head. There is a whole distracting amount of pressure in that situation.Hopefully it all works out and he "comes out"