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Re: How Likely Would She Be Pregnant?

6 posts on this thread and the last post was on February 14th, 2009 10:21 PM
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JEZZA - February 9th, 2009 8:14 AM
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Hello,
First and foremost Ive always been a paranoid type of person. Anyway a few day s ago I fingered a girl for 5-10 minutes and then she gave me oral sex in which i ejaculated in her mouth. She must have had some semen on her hands surely. Anyway I put my penis back inside my boxer shorts and we didn't do anything sexual other than kiss and stuff for the next half an hour . We didnt wash ourselves, piss or anything but just kissed each other. Anyway when I put my penis back in my boxer shorts, I might have touched a bit of semen... For the next half an hour, I touched various other things so would the semen have died if I touch say a jumper briefly or something? Anyway half an hour later, I fingered her and then we had protected sex (yes with a condom on). So, this is where I am a bit worried.
I might have had a bit (not much at all) of semen on my hand when I put my penis into my boxer shorts half an hour earlier, and then I fingered her.
Anyway when I was putting the condom onto my penis, and I asked her to hold the tip of the condom (squeeze the air).. Remember that she had earlier given me oral sex hence she might have had some semen on her hands still and she was holding the tip of the condom before we had sex. So if she still did have soem semen on her hand, would it still be alive because if it was alive, she did touch the tip of the condom and the condom did go into her vagina. What would be he likelihood of the semen dying within the next half an hour when it hit the fresh air and was on her hand? She did touch a few things with her hands around in the car throughout that half an hour so if she touched things, would that make the semen die? Whils having the protected sex, i also didnt come in her again so I am not worried about that, but more so about the other few encounters up above.

And one more thing I forgot to mention is that we had dry sex.. But I had pants on and I think my penis may not have been in my boxer shorts whereas she had nothing on.. And my boxer shorts were a bit wet i think from the semen but i dont know about the pants... We did this 30 minutes after the oral sex had occurred.. Do you think there is anything that I should be worried about here...

Thank you for your time


clindholm - February 9th, 2009 10:53 AM

It doesn't sound like there is any cause for worry based on what you described. I don't know what you mean by
"But I had pants on and I think my penis may not have been in my boxer shorts whereas she had nothing on.. And my boxer shorts were a bit wet i think from the semen but i dont know about the pants... We did this 30 minutes after the oral sex had occurred.
Did you have clothes on or not?


JEZZA - February 9th, 2009 4:33 PM

Thanks for the reply. Sorry I wasnt clear, and what I meant was I had dry sex 30 minutes after the oral sex for a few minutes in which she had no clothes on and I had pants on but i wasnt sure if my penis was in my boxer shorts (i think it was).. but i did have at least 1 layer of clothing(the pants on) on that seperated my penis from her vagina(but im not sure if i had that second layer there as well, that is, the boxer shorts... and I might have still been wet down there from the semen from the previous oral sex... So what are the chances from pregnancy occuring from this? Thanks


clindholm - February 10th, 2009 10:11 AM

I would say the chances of pregnancy are slim to none. You may want to check into birth control soon, things have a way of getting out of hand especially if you are already at this stage. Try not worry and remember, if she is worried & stressed about being pregnant, that can delay her period. If she's late, take a test to set your minds at ease.



JEZZA - February 11th, 2009 8:36 AM

Thanks for the info, you have helped me enormously....
Just another question, I have read online that wet, slippery vagina is a sign of ovulation.. However, as soon as I started to finger her, her pussy felt wet.. and when i stuck in a few fingers, you could feel and hear that she was wet.... Does this normally happen? Or is this usually a sign of ovulation? I am not talking from much experience that is why I am asking you guys, the pros... Even if she was ovulating, the chances of her getting pregnant from what I have done are pretty much slim to none aren't they?

And by the way, what do you mean about checking into brith control soon, things have a way of getting out of hand? I dont think she is worried because isnt expecting it to happen but I am a bit (not a lot because it doesnt sound like I have much to worry about) worrieid because I dont want a kid at a young age!

Once again, thanks heaps :)
I think I am learning more now than my whole time at school


clindholm - February 11th, 2009 9:23 AM

Cervical fluid at ovulation time is different than arousal fluid. Fertile cervical fluid will be observed without sexual activity.

My comment about birth control was b/c it sounds like you will be having sex soon and are not yet ready for a baby.


JEZZA - February 14th, 2009 10:21 PM

Hi, and thanks for your reply.

I will definitely be considering birth control pills in the future (learning about them as we speak), perhaps should have done it this time around. Anyway, what would have been the likelihood that the condom broke or something during the 10-15 min of sex? I didn't really look at it too much at it, but im thinking about it now.

I tried to put the condom on correctly, with her squeezing the tip but there still might have been a little air at the top (i think there was) and she was riding me and it was getting a little rough. Remember I didn't ejaculate however if it did break, then id have to worry about the precum and remember how I had ejaculated 30 minutes earlier and had not urinated hence some sperm couold still be somewhere around. I was also using the durex lubricated condoms which are ok and aren't like the cheap brand and stuff, however they do not have spermicide. Is it really likely that the condom would have failed me based on what I have described hence causing pregnancy?