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Should I Tell Her She Is Pregnant?????

3 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 9th, 2005 4:04 PM
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Bobby - September 6th, 2005 3:06 AM
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My wife is supposed to be on the pill, but I can't find them and she hasn't been taking them which I always notice. We had sex on days 4, 20, 24 and 32 of her cycle. Usually if she is not on the pill she tells me once I am in her and we talk about if it is OK to cum inside her. On day 20 she was really wet and she didn't say anything about her going off the pill. I waited for her to tell me but she didn't and I came in her. After sex I had my arm on her and she moved it to her belly. Same thing on day 24. She is not good about knowing her cycle but I have been keeping track. She has only had 2 periods since our second child a year ago, she is 28 days. She is now a week late. Two days ago she slept most of the day. She has been constipated. Her smell has been a little sensitive. She was eating chocolate out of the blue, it usually gets thrown out because of age in our house. The only thing I am waiting for is frequent urination. I noticed that right away during the other pregnancies. I keep looking for tampon wrappers in the garbage, or a pregnancy test in her drawer. In the mean time she is buying new clothes for work. I find that odd if she thought she might pregnant. Had a couple of drinks, which she never has. Lifting heavy stuff. She did go to the grocery store and didn't buy a pregnancy test at a week late. Should I tell her she is pregnant or am I freaking out for nothing, and what's with not taking the pill? Last I herd she lost the prescription five days before she needed to start them. I did tell her I wanted to get her off them a few months ago but she didn't want to talk about it because she didn't want to get into the details about cycle beads. The only thing we both understood was the risk of another pregnancy off the pill, and I told her do want another kid. Is she trying to get pregnant? Is she just not paying attention to her cycle at all? Should I say something? I don't know what to do, or what's going on for the first time in our relationship.


Lacey - September 7th, 2005 10:47 PM

She is your wife and your comunication should be open. If you feel the need to discuss it with her then you should. On the flip side, most women know their body. She may be waiting for the right moment to tell you or she may have some other reason she is keeping quiet. It may be best for you to respect her privacy.


christina - September 9th, 2005 12:32 PM

Well, Do you know how long she hasn't been taking the pill? First of all all women are different, but it usually takes time for a womans body to 'get back to normal' after taking birth controll. I don't have personal experience from taking the pill. But i was on the depo shot and it took months to get my body back in order. I didn't have a period for 2 1/2 months, i was emotional and had cravings. Everything you would think when being pregnant. However she is your wife, you know her pretty well and as lacey (from above) said keep the line of communication open. If this is a concern of yours then by all means ask her. Good luck to you. If she happens to be pregnant then congradulations.... babies are precious gifts.


To Bobby dingbat - September 9th, 2005 4:04 PM

What kind of retarded question is that??? Of course tell. She's your WIFE!