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I Need Serious Help, Please..

1 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 8th, 2008 7:47 PM
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hutz - December 8th, 2008 1:57 PM
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hey guys,
sorry if im on the wrong forum but ah well.
i'm not sure if im preggers or not (prefer not to be!)
im 18, have a boyfriend and am sexually active.. im on the pill, but two weeks ago on saturday i acidentally skipped it, then on the sunday and the monday i didnt take it at my normal time, and had sex that monday night.. after that i began to take it normally again.
then this saturday we both got drunk and i had sex as well as anal... i read somewhere that this causes an infection and i think i got it today.. where im gettin pain as i urinate as well as a little bit of bleeding.
could anyone give me advice on this?
sorry its long winded.


Malica - December 8th, 2008 7:47 PM

Pain when urinating is a strong sign of a bladder infection. They can occur fairly easily when bacteria gets into your urethra from sex (even vaginal sex can cause this). Bladder infections can quickly worsen to kidney infections (which it might have already if you've got some blood in your urine). A simple dose of antibiotics will clear that up. It will not go away on it's own so it's important that you go see your doctor as soon as possible.

To keep the urethra free of foreign bacteria, always urinate after sex, and it would be wise to use a condom for just anal sex so that it can be removed and not provide contamination to the vagina should you go on to have vaginal sex afterwards.

As for pregnancy, there's nothing you can do but wait until your period is due. If it doesn't show up on time, take a home pregnancy test. But the symptoms you're having now are most likely due to a bladder infection and are not cause by pregnancy.