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I think a guy that cheats on his pregnant wife, girlfriend or fiance is a pig! Any cheater is wrong. You have to honestly ask yourself why you want to be with someone that treats you so poorly and someone that you can't trust. You deserve much better than that. I know being pregnant makes it hard because you need him to be supportive and want everything to work out but you can't change him, and sticking around with him hoping he will change won't work. I was in a 3 year relationship with a guy like that, who did not respect me and luckilly we never had any children together but I am so much happier with out him. Now I am with a great guy and expecting a baby. My suggestion is to break up with him. I know it will be hard since you are pregnant but you deserve happiness and you want happiness for your child and if he treats you that way now, he will do it in front of your child. And thats not a good example. Your heart will get you through it.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. If you were in a car that almost flipped over, you should definitely see a doctor to make sure everything is okay with the baby. A trauma like that can affect the baby - so please get yourself looked at and make sure everything is okay physically. Secondly, I know this is someone you have committed yourself to, but marriage is hard work and he doesn't seem like he treats you well. Not just the cheating, but making you feel guilty about losing money to the point of crying yourself to sleep... you deserve better.

Proudmami, i just had my husband read your posting. But my husband and i are sorry to hear that your going through a rough time... this is what my husband said, Of course he's CHEATING, if not he's starting to. If he was really supportive his first response would of been, are you ok? (from the car accident) No need to get upset about money. He's in denial, Denial about the whole pregnancy. the advice i can possibly give is for you to let go. Look for support through your family and or friends. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't care about your emotional state and you period. You need to start focusing on whats best for the unborn child and you, and yes in that order... That's what he had to say. I dont know if thats going to help but i thought you'd like to know from a man's point of view. We wish you the best of luck, God Bless you and your child...