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Maybe Its Just Emotions...

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on January 25th, 2006 8:16 PM
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izzy1052 - January 23rd, 2006 2:14 PM
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ok.. well me and my bf had sex early this morning and it was great as usual but do any of you feel a lil emotional afterwards?? i know it sounds weird but about 20 min. afterward i got all sad and kept asking him if i was repulsive just cuz i feel like im so undesirable... i know that if i was that repulsive he wouldn't touch me lol... but these emotions are outta control... and oh my god last night at our friends house he was really really tired and he kinda snapped at me about something and i about lost my damn mind and started crying... now, this morning, i don't even remember what he said.. lol.. i feel like im losing my mind.. but from now on if we have sex i don't wanna be all depressed afterwards... any advice ladies.. did anyone kinda feel this way or am i crazy?!?


Jessica NY - January 25th, 2006 8:40 AM

Don't worry izzy, I've been in the same boat. I've wondered sometimes afterward if it was sympathy sex because I'm so enormous I can't imagine my husband finding me even vaguely attractive right now. He assures me though that he finds me very sexy and loves me, that usually puts my mind at ease. Also during periods when we didn't have sex and I wondered again whether it was because I was disgusting he talked to me about how he was feeling - at the time he was nervous about having sex although he knew it was safe he just felt weird knowing that his little boy was in there being jiggled about while we were "busy". Don't stress hun, talk to your bf and he will I'm sure make you feel a whole lot better, it really is mostly hormones making us emotional.


izzy1052 - January 25th, 2006 8:16 PM

thanks jessica... we did it again this morning and i felt a lot better afterwards... i wasnt all emotional and shit because he was rubbing my stomach and kissin me and all that so i actually felt kinda beautiful lol.. plus im getting more comfortable with my body changing and stuff... plus afterwards we cuddled and fell asleep... that made me feel good to not just do it and roll over and sleep... men are just confusing and we're just whiney.. hehe