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7 posts on this thread and the last post was on February 13th, 2009 10:09 AM
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rue21 - February 9th, 2009 5:02 PM
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ok my boyfriend and i are both virgins and we did not have intercourse but can you become pregnant from the tip of the penis rubbing around the area of the vagina? he did not go in. i believe he did not have any pre-cum either. please answer soon


afraidgirl - February 9th, 2009 9:56 PM

i also have that problem... my boyfriend and I also did not have the intercourse and he did not go in.. and like you.. im afraid if I could be pregnant by the rubbing the tip of the penis around the area of the vagina... have you got any answer yet? im afraid.. please help.. ;c


rue21 - February 10th, 2009 12:51 AM

i have not...i think i'm really close to my period so i'm not as worried. i called my dr today and she hasn't had the chance to call me back. i'm going to try to get a hold of her tomorrow again. i hope to hear from her. if i do i'll let you know. i've been feeling crampy and bloating a little and those are usually my symptoms for my cycle so i think i'm starting in a day or so. we only did that yesterday morning so yea...he didn't do it for too long and i don't think he had any precum on him so yea


afraidgirl - February 10th, 2009 4:24 AM

thank you.. im really afraid.. we only did that last last monday.. february 2.. and i have an irregular menstruation.. so i can rely on my menstruation period..



afraidgirl - February 10th, 2009 4:35 AM

*i can't rely on my menstrual period


clindholm - February 10th, 2009 10:13 AM

Technically you could become pregnant but the chance is minimal. If your period is erratic, take a test about 2-2.5 weeks after the incident and get some birth control for next time.


rue21 - February 10th, 2009 10:39 AM

i have an irregular menstruation as well. its from me taking birth control pills for my skin before on and off for seeing what would help me with my skin. so it kinda messed it up. i'm thinking about getting back on them so i won't have to worry about this again...Thank you clindholm :) i'm still going to check this out with my dr


Malica - February 13th, 2009 10:09 AM

Take the birth control pill regularly and properly or not at all. It is important to take *all* medication that your doctor prescribes for you as they tell you to, not whenever you feel like it or whenever you might remember.

All either of you can do is to take a home pregnancy test, as clindholm says, 2 to 2.5 weeks after this risky behaviour occurred. The chances of you being pregnant are quite slim, however if you continue this behaviour your chances will increase (20 "slim chances" added up are no longer just a "slim chance" any more).

In the meantime, sit down with your partner and discuss what you will be doing about birth control from today onward, and don't fool around like this until you have straightened this out. Either the pill USED PROPERLY (using it erratically offers virtually no protection from pregnancy), or by using condoms any time his penis gets anywhere near your vagina. Every time.