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Why Do U Think He Doesn't Want To Have Sex?

3 posts on this thread and the last post was on July 27th, 2006 11:43 AM
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LocaNesa - July 21st, 2006 7:14 PM
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Why doesn't my husband want to have sex? Hes told me that hes afraid to hurt me and the bay but i feel that hes not likeing the way i look now...Its hard for me because i feel that he doesn't want anything to do with me just because of my look...and i've been dieing to have sex for a while and he doesn't...pluss i think it will help me go in labor faster since i'm due in a few days...so what should i do?


iemc19 - July 22nd, 2006 5:28 PM

Believe what he's telling you - my dh felt the same way and I was very horny throughout each pregnancy. The first pregnancy I spent a lot of time telling him I was okay and that it was fine and natural and that he wouldn't hurt me or meet his baby early!! Now he just loves it when I am pregnant because I jump him at all hours! Tell him after all you've been through and all you will be going through - it's the least he can do!! Tell him it will give you something to focus on and think about when you go into labour!


inuk-mama - July 23rd, 2006 1:49 PM

i know exactly how you feel! my husband and i go weeks and weeks without it then we do it once and go back to nothing. I thought it was because he wasn't attracted to me anymore but i realized that every time we do have sex it hurts me! just talking with him about it helped us alot, and there is other things you can do besides sex ;)


dy - July 27th, 2006 11:43 AM

alot of men feel that way, that they're going to hurt the baby. no matter how many times you tell them, if that is stuck in their head, then it's stuck. but don't worry, you're beautiful and i'm sure he thinks you are