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20 And Wants To Have A Child #2

28 posts on this thread and the last post was on August 25th, 2005 9:17 AM
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Jodi - August 2nd, 2005 11:10 PM
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Just thought I would start a new thread, the other one was getting pretty long, and besides we don't want to have to see those snotty remarks about ashley anymore, right. How's everyone doing? I've been busy doing a lot of bd'ing and taking tonight off, It tends to get a little sore down there if it's roughed up too much....if you know what I mean....hehe!


Ashley - August 2nd, 2005 11:48 PM

Hey! thanks for sticking up for me!! WELL!! I have insurance now (for all those who CARE, I had to get it through another company since I work for myself now and not anyone else) I have decided not to ttc now...if it happens, great but for now I want to be 21 and go out and have fun! I know having a baby is a HUGE responsability and I would love to have one but It's not my time right now. I will still continue to come on here and talk to you girls because you always have something good to say and make my day!! Good Luck to you all and Thanks for everything!! If theres ever anything I can do (through this site or email! lol) feel free to ask away!! So, How are you girls? Pregnant I hope! If not, your time will soon come!! I know it!! ***** Baby Dust ***** to you all!!


Jodi - August 3rd, 2005 12:35 AM

Ashley, Many wishes for your future plans. I hope things go really good for you. You're a sweet person and deserve the best! I hope in the future when you decide to ttc you will have much luck and a smooth pregnancy. I will continue to keep you and the rest of the girls on here in my prayers, as we all need a ton of them!!


Nell - August 3rd, 2005 3:45 AM

I can'tbelieve how out of control some people can be....lol. Life goes on right. I am currently still ttc....had lots of good lovin for the past 3 days lol! My brand new engagement ring brke right after i go tit and I just gotit back so YAY!!! That is good you are able to get insurance Ashley!! YAY for ASH! The way I see it Ashley it will happen for you me and everyone else exactly when it is suppose to happen. Also Ashley if your period or miscarriage stopped bleeding I wouldn't be too concerned many women have miscarriages in the begining and never even know it and physically they are fine. As long as there were no major complications you body naturally takes care of it. Jodi your an awesome person and I am glad to meet you! BTW I do not have insurance but I will as soon as Mike and I tie the knot and we are still talking about dates. Last months period still weirded me out and I am having breast tenderness.... what are the odds of having af and being pregnant? well ladies I am off to bed I need some sleep gotta work in the morning! HUGS and BABY DUST!!



bump! - August 3rd, 2005 7:08 PM

bump it up!


Ashley - August 3rd, 2005 11:33 PM

Well HELLO :-]
How is everyone tonight?


Jodi - August 3rd, 2005 11:49 PM

Well I want to ask you guys a question...How common are evap lines on $ store pregnancy test? I have never had one before and trust me I've used quite a few of them, anyway today I took one and I was at work so I didn't wait the whole 5 mins b/c I didn't want them to think anything or think that I was stealing, so I went back later(after time limit) and there was a faint line on there. I'm not going to get excited b/c I know it happens, but I was just curious of how common they were with $ store test. I'm going to wait until next week and take another one, as it is still earlier for a test to be positive. Fingers crossed. I woke up this morning and I was sooo dizzy! I could feel myself leaning to the right side, then later in the day I had a shooting pain go from my leftside all the way down to the top of my knee. I not going to look into things to much, b/c I don't want to be dissappointed. How's everyone doing???


Shana - August 4th, 2005 1:35 PM

Hey! I'm glad that you started a new forum, the people that judge others like Ashley shouldn't be in these forums. So, I'm not sure how far along I am, but I have seens pictures on the internet of what you would look like at 6 weeks, and my stomach has gotten bigger. So when the doctor says you wont show til three months, that's not true. My future mother-to-be and I went shopping, bought a really cute baseball shirt that says "Miracle at work" with a stork carrying a baby. It is so cute. I'm having fun looking at the baby clothes, and maternity clothes. I already have some baby clothes, it is very exciting. I have heard in the past that people that don't plan on having kids have them, but the ones that try and try have less of a chance, (for a while anyways) maybe you have to be in the moment (if ya know what I mean). I don't even know when I had my last period, before the one that I just misses. See the problem with my bf and I was that there were days when we would have sex maybe six times a day, and the only protection I used was the birth control. I was pretty lucky in not getting pregnant earlier because we have been together for over a year. It might not have been the perfect time, but we are going to make the best out of it. I know that we will be great parents, I'm just worried about the constant care, waking up in the night. I'm more worried about sleeping, I get cranky when I don't sleep well. I will learn as I go along. I will take one day at a time.
I hope that everyone is good, and that everything works out for the ones that are trying. Since I have been pregnant, I slept well last night fo the first time in two weeks. I find that if I drink any liquids after 8 o'clock I wake up in the middle of the night to pee, it drives me crazy. I didn't have to get up once last night. I have also noticed a change in my stomach. It feels weird, constantsly, and I am now noticing that there are some foods that make me nauseated, such as the smell of ranch dressing, and salads. It is so weird, and I'm craving chicken mcnuggets, eat them today, the first time in years. I also notice that since my boobs have been sore, they are also very itchy. I was watching "Canadian Idol" last night, and I caught myself crying when Amber was booted off. I know one of the contestants "Casey LeBlanc" I went to school with her, she has a really good voice, but I don't think that she is ready for Canadian Idol, she needs a few more years of practice. Don't get me wrong she is an amazing singer, I've seen her sing in public, but I have noticed when she has chocked singing up there.
Do u guys watch that show? Who is your fav. singer?



Ashley - August 4th, 2005 5:06 PM

I have used the dollar store HPT and have never seen any line that should be a positive (after the time limit was up) so i would take another one and see what it says!! GOOD LUCK JODI!!!! Sounds promising!!


Jodi - August 4th, 2005 11:34 PM

Well, I took another test today, but it was the wal-mart brand and it was negative??? So I don't know, are the $ store test more sensitive? I'm sure it was probably an evap line, but who knows, I guess I'll just have to wait and see it af shows up. I still think it would be to early to tell If I was anyway. I have noticed here lately, I'm a smoker, yes I know I should quit, but I am working on that, anyway, I've noticed that they make me gag, really bad, they just taste awful, I mean they did anyway, but not that bad. I will just have to wait and see....Thanks Ashley. I've never had an evap line on those test before either, but who knows, probably just my luck.


Ashley - August 4th, 2005 11:37 PM

Well, it could be too early, and yes smoking is BAD!!! lol Good Luck on trying to quit!! Wish ya the best for that! I have also taken the walmart brand...but they say you can take that one up to 5 days BEFORE your missed period...who knows! EVERYONE is DIFFERENT! Good Luck Sweetie and lots of baby dust to you all!! keep me posted!!


nell - August 6th, 2005 5:01 AM

hi gals how are u doing? bought a test thinking of taking one...just have feeling ya know...may just be in my head though....sigh..... babydust to all!


nell - August 9th, 2005 8:00 PM

So how are you gurls doing?


Jodi - August 9th, 2005 11:29 PM

Well girls I still am waiting to test. I still have about 6 or 7 days til af. I don't know if any of you read my story under Crazy story, i mean Crazy. What do you guys think of that, It was so weird!! I hope that guy was right. As far a symptoms go I get heartburn, but did last month too, so just thinking it's going to be a normal thing for me now??, My bbs are a little tender, but not to bad, I'm tired all the time, and having a few cramps, but that's it for me. I'm not really getting impatient about the wait b/c if I do I know it will take even longer to get, I not even really thinking to much about it anymore, just figure when it's time I'll get pregnant. I've decided that I can't waist everyday or every hour thinking I might be pregnant, the harder you try the harder it's going to be, so how's everyone else??


Ashley - August 15th, 2005 9:00 PM

How is everyone? I haven't heard from anybody in a while!! Hope all is well!!! Everything here is great!!


Jodi - August 15th, 2005 10:17 PM

Well, great news!! I've taken 5 more test 2 $store and 3FR and they are all BFP!!!!!!!, I'm gonna take another one in the morning, I like to watch the line get darker. I just can't believe it I'm so excited, yet a little nervous, I just don't want to have to go through another m/c. So please pray for me!! how are you doing ashley, still plan on waiting??? Well Good luck and God Bless!!!!


Ashley - August 15th, 2005 10:20 PM

Jodi thats wonderful!!! Congrats!!! I'm sure you dont have to tak another lol!! Sounds like a REAL BFP!! I am just going to let nature take its course....I'm not doing anything harmful to my body (i.e drinking), I am working out, eating right, and if its my time then GREAT! but I'm not ttc. I'm so happy for you!!! Keep me posted!!!