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Elove27~ I've heard that many women feel they are coming down with the flu before they actually learn that they are pregnant. Hopefully that's good news! (I awakened with a headache today too)
Duda~Deciding to have an IUI was not easy. First, from my husband's perspective, he wanted to do things the "manly" way. I forget that most men attach some sort of self-image on that prized part of their anatomy (much like some women do with breasts). He doesn't really like me talking about it becasue he feels less masculine...And to the contrary, deciding to go thta way had very little to do withhim and everything to do with me. I'm 38 years old and we've unofficially been trying since before we got married, and this Wed is our 3rd wedd anniv. So, a couple years ago I was referred to fertil dr. She wanted to jump on into IUI asap and I just first wanted to get a game plan and move that direction. DH was afraid of fertil meds and twins, so we didn't do anything but go natural. Then, recenlty my obgyn told me that my egg reserve was super super low (don't remember #'s) and that I needed to skip past pills and go to injectibles. His best estimate was that I should have 4-6 mos left to get pregnant, based on blood test. I went back to Fertil Dr. and told her to do what she needed to do. Keep in mind, DH has been resistant, but I finally put my foot down and said that this is OUR dream, and I would not let this slip by because of concerns, and he agreed...so, here we are. (Sometimes we just need to take matters into our own hands). I might also add that DH has spinal surgery and has had lots of pain with BD, and we cryo'd his specimen prior to his last surgery, so we moved forward with that this month. The benefit of doing so is that we already know how many swimmers are in that specimen this month. So, for this IUI, there were 24Million, I appeared to ovul on the day of the IUI, and there were 3 follies, so I'm really hoping I'm one of the lucky ones to conceive first time around. Three years of emotional ups and downs..I've gained weight (more than I wanted to begin pregnancy with) and this has effected me greatly. The costs for the IUI weren't bad...it's the meds. I took Femara (inexpensive and gyn wrote the script for 30, as though it's for breast cancer, and that will last me 6 months now, rather than a script for 5 a month); I took Gonal F injections for 5 or 6 days (75) which was $480--ish and insurance doesn't cover; and Ovidrel ($40ish), again insurance won't cover. Some plans cover the IUI, but it was $325. The process requires blood work and ultrasounds which are often covered as diagnostic measures. I feel that science has come a long way and yet, if the good Lord doesn't think I should be a mom, it won't happen, but since I've waited so long, perhaps we could use a jumpstart on the process. hope it helps.

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