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Need Some Encouragement :(

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 6th, 2009 5:51 PM
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Praying4aLittleOne - September 3rd, 2009 3:15 PM
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Hi, I have been charting my BBT. I have been praying so hard that I am pregnant this month. I feel so sad because I have 3 sisters and none of them had any problems getting pregnant. As a matter of fact, they started having babies as soon as they got married. I have been married 2 years and have never used any method of birth control in my life, and still no children. I plan on testing Saturday if no AF. Today, I am on day 14 of my luteal phase. My temperature dropped today very close to the coverline, but not past it. Hubby and I had sex on all my fertile days this month. My usual luteal phase, according to fertility friend, is anywhere from 12-15 days. Is there still a chance I could be pregnant or is this a clear sign that I'm not since my temperature has started dropping? Has anyone on here ever had a chart that looked like AF was on the way, but turned out pregnant? I know that I will just have to wait, but I am just looking for hope. Thanks so much!


kimberly - September 3rd, 2009 4:22 PM

2 years and no birth control is a long time to be trying with no sucess. They suggest after a year to see a Dr. My friend tried for 7 years to concieve with her husband and finally after years of heartbreak her and her hubby got checked out. It was him not her, he had a low count, she did ivf twice and the second round was sucessful, she has a 2 1/2 year old son now. Point being it may be your hubby and not you, it would be a good idea for both of you to get checked out. I have never used them but have seen them advertised on tv, first response makes a fertility test for women, it is suppose to tell you if you are likely a fertile person or not, maybe see what it says about you. Also you can take herbal supplements and so can your hubby, they're believed to help with fertility issues. Sorry I am rambling I am at work and it is so slow here today, I am losing my mind.(seasonal work)I never charted but I know a temp. drop is not a good sign.:( ....sorry I am a terrible liar. lol! But, hey hope is never lost until af comes.


pleiades - September 6th, 2009 5:51 PM

You temp can drop when you implant so there may still be a chance if you are implanting late. The next day it would then rise again. If it keeps dropping, say hello to AF....