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i thought u sed u were single...? lol congrats on ur pregnancy!!

Hi kabbot. I am also single, 33, preggo with my first. My exboyfriend has has a 7 yr old daughter. This was also unplanned We tried a couple years ago but gave up, so this is a shock as well

Thank you for the good wishes Mammy16.
Hi Katina. I'm glad to hear someone else is in the same boat. I have been struggling with the possibility of making my boyfriend an ex. How are you feeling about it all? I've always wanted a child, but this is far from the optimum situation I had in mind.

Actually kabbo, we are not together anymore. We actually broke up earlier this year but continued to see each other. I am not sure how things are going to move forward. I have to shift my focus to the baby so that is my first priority.

i'm 34 years old, pregnant and single. my boyfriend of 3 years bailed 3 days before wedding I was about 14 weeks at the time. tomorrow 23 weeks

Wow kei. I'm sorry. I guess I should feel lucky my boyfriend still wants to be in the picture. Just as pregnancy seems to change us, I think it changes the men even more in some regards.

Hi Everyone,
I am 39 single with first child. I am not sure if I am going to tell the father. We are still dating off and on. But something keeps holding me back from telling him. I am prepared to raise this baby alone, but it would be nice to have someone by my side. I guess i'm scared to find out the answer whether he would want the baby or not. Any advise.

Hi Maddie. I was absolutely terrified to tell my boyfriend. This would make his 4th child with the 4th mother. It was definitely the last thing he wanted to have happen. I thought about breaking it off with him and disappearing to do it on my own. In the long run, I think I did the right thing telling him. Although he isn't exactly happy about it, his reaction wasn't anywhere near as bad as I thought it would be. I had decided that I wanted to give him a chance to be a father to this child... mostly for the child itself. If you think he'd be a good father, you should give him that chance. The more I read some of the posts on this website, the more I truly believe that. And if you want to keep this baby, he can't bully you into doing anything different. It's ultimately your decision. Take care and good luck. I hope it works out alright.