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I wouldn't try to stress on it too much. The last thing that you need to do right now is worry yourself over nothing....unless you have solid evidence that he's cheating. He could just be freaking out because this is a reality check that he only has 4 months before he is going to be a father. That's a scary thing for anybody to deal with. If you truly believe that he's cheating, ask him. He he denies it and you still have your suspicions, do some detective work. But don't stress too much, it's really bad for your baby. If he turns out to be a jerk, then oh well, his loss. My guy left me when I was 3 months pregnant, sucks, but I've been trying to relax and not stress too much. Anyways, don't break up with your guy over this unless you are sure thats what you want. Us pregnant girls tend to be very emotional and think irrationally. Good luck!:)

Hi ladies, Moni, I agree with Joanne. Believe me, I know how easy it is to start worrying when your guy starts acting weird. There is no doubt about it, sometimes men can be sneaky jerks! If you've ever been in a similar situation before, your warning alarms start going off, and you're going, "oh man, here we go again!" That's only natural. Even though it's hard, try to give him the benefit of the doubt right now. He's probably just dealing with all those new dad worries, nervous about the future. As you know, being a parent is a permanent thing, a life-long commitment. It's scary for us moms to think about, it's only natural that dads go through the same thing too. From what you said, it sounds like he is pretty commited to you and this baby. Give him some time, and talk to him. Be honest about your suspicions, tell him you understand if he's worried and nervous. A little communication between you two might be all it takes!