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Baby Shower Even When Not Sure Of What To Do With Baby

3 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 13th, 2005 6:46 PM

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Confused - September 13th, 2005 3:42 AM

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my friend is throwing me a baby shower but I'm not sure what i will do with this baby--keep or give it up for adoption...so would it be appropriate to have my friends give me gifts for the baby and me giving it to the adoptive parents if i planned on keeping it? I dont know how everyone will react if they buy me gifts that i wont use but the new parents will...theres a 50% chance I'll keep this baby and use the things they buy me...I dont know what to do, I'm lookin foward and excited about the baby shower..

Nicole - September 13th, 2005 6:20 PM

well, i think that you should tell your friends that you dont want to have one yet... have you found a family to adopt your child? or have you talked to anyone? i would love to talk more with you and help you in any way thta i can! please e-mail me at: loveable69b@yahoo.com... thanks ans God bless

me - September 13th, 2005 6:44 PM

she should wait till after teh babys born to have the shower, i have a friend that placed her baby, we has a shower for u not the baby, the gift were things that she could use.
when she picked the family that she wanted for her baby we gave the adoptive mother and a baby shower but she came too.
it worked out good,
best wishes for u in ur search

kate - September 13th, 2005 6:46 PM

if u do deceide to place the baby will u email, im not looking to adopt but i have really close cousins that is
kate_wee22@yahoo.com
good luck and hope to hear from u

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