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This is kind of a long story but I really need to talk to some women who understand. I am 24, I was a ballroom dancer and I met this guy. He lives in KC, I live in Omaha. I worked for him and helped him run his studio, we were partners and I planend on moving down there to jump start my career and compete, etc. We never actually dated but he asked me to marry him and I said no. A few weeks later (we were no longer speaking) I found out I was pregnant. I am now 33 weeks with a little boy. It never seemed to bother him that I wa spregnant, in fact I think he enjoyed it because he feels like now he can manipulate me. he put me through so much stress the first few months that I didn't speak to him at all until recently. the only reason I called him is because I was feeling desperate. I don't really know how I'm going to support this child. So anyway, now he insists that I let him see the baby when he wants probably 1 weekend a month and that he is going to bring his 10 yr old and girlfriend with him. In fact, he was going to bring his girlfriend when I asked him to help me move. I told him nevermind. I think it's incredibly selfish of him. He only wants to pay 50 dollars a month, I don't know how much child support will ask for but it's probably no much more. He is now tellign me that I have to let him do whatever he wants and that I just haveto accept that this is the way my life will be, meanwhile he is flying to LA and going out and having a ball. He has contributed a total aof 75 dollars this entire time. He is so arrogant and self righteous as to tell em that I am the selfish one and htat I'm being childish. I told him if he wanted to see his son, it should be just him, and that if he can afford to travel here, then he can afford more child support. It takes about 3 tanks of gas to drive roudn trip. There a re a million other little things he has said to me that are just unbelievable. I actually started losing weight because of the arguing. So, basically he gets his cake and eats it too. He can tell me what to do and not carry any of the responsibilty. I really don't want anythign to do with him. No one else seems to understand my anger. It's so unfair and even though everyone tells me to go to court, I know they won't be much help. I've already talked to a lawyer about it and basically this guy will get exactly what he wants. Control.