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shelby you can cope. i bet if someone told you the first time round that you would end up pregnant and single but would cope fine and get your life back on track you wouldn't have believed them. you are thinking very negatively which is not suprising since the scumbag has done the same thing to you again, but i think you know deep down that you have done it once and you can do it again. the guy is a user, he just came back when everything was back on track and used the fact you have his child as an easy way of getting back into your life. you have made a mistake to get back with him, as they do not change, but your baby should not be punished for it. so many single mothers cope brilliantly and if you use the support of friends and family, you will start to feel better in no time. do not be dependant on this guy, the fact is he hasnt changed, you want him to change but then we all know that people don't suddently change unless THEY want to. focus on the love you will get from your baby and the strength from your family and closest friends.

Shelby, I agree with Cat. If you did this before, you can definately do this again. You just have to be strong. I started having a lot of problems with my boyfriend (well x-boyfriend) about midway thru my pregnancy...and tho I hate to admit it, there were times when I thought about how I didn't want the baby and had negative thoughts, but I realized that the reason I was having those thoughts is because I thought if I wasn't pregnant, things would work out between my X and I. But you can't put your x in front of your baby, which is what I was doing. And once I realized that and realized that he wasn't worth it, I started feeling love for my baby and everything fell into place. It's hard to feel those feelings, especially when the father is around and makes it difficult for you, but all you can do is remember who is more important and hopefully it'll help your feelings come into place eventually. I had problems with depression also..but now I'm 34 works and I'm really doing okay with the fact that the father and I aren't together. I hope everything works out for you. Just remember that you did it once before so you can do it again.

I meant "when the father ISNT around"