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I Hate My Boyfriend
12 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 11th, 2005 2:25 AM
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Im 23 pregnant and my boyfriend doesnt want to have the baby he wants me to abort it but i cant do it. Now he wants to be supportive but i hate him right now he has said some really mean shit and is so selfish. AAAAAHHHHH I really dont know what to do I am not gonna be with a man that doesnt want my baby, we are a package deal. Dont get me wrong I love him we have been together for 2 years but i cant stand it anymore. What would you do?

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 | Advice - September 8th, 2005 7:27 PM |
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He is reaching out to you and at least he is trying. It could be worse, trust me. At least he is taking some sort of responsibility. Give him another chance.

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 | Aisha - September 8th, 2005 9:28 PM |
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I know what you mean. My babys daddy was a complete asshole until reality sunk in..then he apologized for" all the bullshyt he put me through" and is trying to do right. He flipped back and forth so many times that I got sick of it. One minute he was going to be the best father in the world then he wasnt sure whathe had to offer. I just let it all roll off me and said hey I KNOW Im a good mom so if you want to be a dead beat feel free...and dead beat isnt always about money its emotions. Give him a chance. hes doing what men do best...acting like an asshole.lol

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 | s - September 8th, 2005 10:05 PM |
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girl give him another chance because men say that they are the strongest but that's a lie. He's just confused due to the responsibility that come with a child . And it could be worse than that at least he didnt say to you I go or the baby go so think about that.

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 | - September 8th, 2005 10:13 PM |
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how old r u

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 | me - September 8th, 2005 10:15 PM |
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its not fair for him to say that, he was there too. u need to abort the boyfriend and focas on the baby, and stay as stress free as can be.
good luck

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 | jt - September 8th, 2005 10:15 PM |
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have u thought about adoption,

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 | Aisha - September 9th, 2005 2:16 PM |
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There ya go again with the adoption trolls

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 | Anne - September 9th, 2005 5:03 PM |
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Is a boyfriend "hatter" like a "mad hatter"?

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I know i should give him a break I talked to him last night and he is singing a different tune, I know this is hard but it is not like im a teenager, we both graduated from school and have been together for awhile. I would of never thought in a million years that he would of acted like this. Why is it that women can handle shit so much better?

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Oh yeah, Im 23 so there is no way I would give this child up for adoption or abort it, Ive made my bed. To each is own but this is the route im gonna take

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 | Amber - September 10th, 2005 1:48 AM |
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I know how you feel. Really. I am halfway through the pregnancy and he is still being an ass. No one told him he has to be a dad. I just told him i was going to be a mom. Id rather do it alone, then with some ass pretending that he wants to do it somedays, and other days not at all. It sucks. I dont know how most ladies do it. I want to go back 5 months and get un pregnant! And while im at it, get sterilized too. My heart breaks for you. Try to be strong. Ill hope for you.

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 | amanda - September 11th, 2005 2:25 AM |
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hi boyfriend hatter i know exactly what your going though i'am 24 and 36 weeks pregnant when i told my booyfriend of 2 years ii was pregnant he said "get an abortion" hes 29 has a great job but does not want to stand up, i kept on going with my pregnancy (crying,upset,etc,) then he brought up the idea adoption! no is my answer last week i went out bought a crib carseat etc. annd if you could see his face!!! but i really think hes warming up to the idea sometimes i think men need more time then us women for reality to really soak in i wish you alot luck and i know its hard right now but it will work out one way or the other.

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