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I Just Need To Vent!

3 posts on this thread and the last post was on November 14th, 2008 8:03 AM
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blackandwhite - March 19th, 2008 4:49 PM
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OK so I am 20 years old and just found out I am about 6 weeks pregnant. I am in a relationship with a guy that I met 6 months ago, the father of my child. When I told him I was pregnant he was happy.. and he still is, and I am too! I pray to God that my baby will be born healthy and happy and nothing will go wrong with this pregnancy. Sometimes though I feel like I am in a relationship with myself. I live with my boyfriend but I never get to see him. He works so much, but only for a few months at a time, and I am afraid that when this baby gets here that he is going to miss out on a lot of stuff. But most of all I am afraid that after the baby is born he is gonna be like "OK, I don't want to be with you anymore, and I have felt like this for a while but I couldn't tell you because you were pregnant"... I don't know if this is a totally irrational fear or what, I just want someone to talk to that is going through the same thing as me, because sometimes I feel like I am so alone!!! Please help me ladies!!

Karebear22 - November 4th, 2008 11:50 PM

I understand what you are going through. I am 20 also and am going through the same thing. I am 14 weeks pregnant been with my boyfriend for 7 months the 1 of November. He was so happy and excite about the baby and now he just seems to get annoyed when i get sad. We are engaged now but i feel he only asked because he felt it was the right thing to do and I feel the same way you do that after this baby is born he will split. I love him so much and would die inside if he left. I get emotional a lot lately and he just sits there doesnt hug me anymore when i cry or say everything will be ok he just kinda looks and me then says its the hormones. That may be true but I need a little bit of attention or feel like it matters im crying. When he is like that it makes me feel like he cant wait for this to be over with so he can leave me. I am here for you if you would like to talk. I feel alone too and need someone as well.


john - November 13th, 2008 2:58 AM

WHERE DO U LIVE?

Karebear22 - November 14th, 2008 8:03 AM

why do you ask???