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You need to lose this guy ASAP. He will give you a lifetime of grief, and chasing after him will only make things worse. Leave the DNA test until the baby is born - it will be cheaper, and by then you will have decided there is no point in it. Also, you have to get some of his DNA to make the test mean anything, and just getting that may take time.

Good luck with the blood work. I hope you can psych yourself into seeing that is best for you and the baby to let him go his way!!

The father of my unborn twins left me so I kinda know what ur talking about... Except for the fact that we are much younger than you...

WAT A F-IN LOOOOSSSSEEERRR.!!.
He is not anyone you should be near while your pregnant.my mom taught me not to be around anyone who makes you cry.its the worst for the baby..
I may be young but I've learn Guys Always Come Back..ALWAYS.leave him alone.for good.and I promise even if it takes months he will come crawling back.as soon as he sees your beautiful baby girl and wants to be in her life it will time for you to be the biggest bitch you can be..
Tell him yes your right its not your baby.its My baby.and im doing the best I can do for me and My baby..

Wow. I feel bad for you, really. When I first told my ex I was pregnant with his kid he refused to even talk to me. We're only in our 20s and he already has a kid on the way with his last ex that's 17 weeks. So the shock that he has to support another kid on top of it sent him into a state of panic. No matter how much I tried to talk to him, or comfort him, or give him as much slack with this as possible he still pushed away. So I learned that I can do this by myself, I dont need him. Which in the end it'll be easier that way seen as how I still have feelings for him. You just need to give up on him. You cant make him want a part in your child's life and if you're just going to receive negativity from him about this its not going to do you any good in the end anyways. Screw him, just make sure you get child support out of it. He has to be involved one way or another and if he wants that way to be financially than so be it. The sooner you're okay with him not having a part in this the easier things will be for you.

I have a question? If there was something wrong with your daughter, would it matter? Or would you still be excited? Amnio can be very dangerous and cause spontaneous abortion of the baby. On top of that, it's obviously too expensive to pay for. So, think of rather it's really worth it. So, maybe she will have special needs, when you hold her in your arms for the first time, you won't care AND there is special medicaid for special needs children and you would never have to pay a dime even if you made a lot of money. Now, as for you ex. Don't bother trying to contact him. Just get someone else to help and drive you around. When the baby is born, get a paternity test, and then go after him for child support. But, who knows, maybe after he realizes the baby is his, he will come around. Don't let him leave you out in the dust, but there is only so much until you have the DNA.