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Miss The Baby’s Daddy

6 posts on this thread and the last post was on February 14th, 2007 1:14 PM
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lier - February 12th, 2007 7:22 PM
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Ok, I haven’t been on this form for awhile…but I felt like being beat up again. The baby’s father has had nothing to do with me basically since he found out, four months ago. And I thought I was finally over him, I mean after four months of no contact. But over this weekend I just had this rush of feeling, and I total miss him. He treated me like crap when we were together and is a big child and I know he no good for me but I want him right now sooo bad it hurts. Why can’t I focus on all his bad qualities and be done with him. Everyone, including his friends and mother said, what he has done, is doing isn’t right. And I know it but I still want him…I am stupid! That is all I can think. Why would someone want to go back to a guy who emotionally abused her? Is it that I am just lonely…I have my friends and family but I really want the jerk. Anyone else this stupid???


lier - February 12th, 2007 7:23 PM

I feel like driving over to his house...he changed his number so I can't call him...please please someone talk me out of this stupidity!!!!!!!!!!


marcsmama - February 13th, 2007 12:15 AM

yup i am sad to say but true just hang in there and hopefully your feelings will change towards him thats what i am hoping for


MandyRenee - February 13th, 2007 2:08 PM

If he changed his number so that you can't call, to him going over to his house would be kinda stalker-ish. Once you have his baby though, I would think that you will have to be around him at some point. If you really still want him back, win him back then. Try to stay close to his family so that they will want to be around your baby and you will no doubt be able to see him without him thinking your crazy. Guys do change, they can grow up. Just be patient.



lier - February 13th, 2007 4:25 PM

I know its stalkish plus its more of me just wanting a father for my baby...I doubt he will be one. Its complcated...his friends say he is miserable and wants me back but he wouldn't do anything about it because of his pride and I feel like I am doing the same thing. AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH I feel like we are both being children and if he would just talk then everthing would be ok.


MandyRenee - February 14th, 2007 12:37 PM

I still say wait, sounds like you two had an ok relashionship before this whole thing. At least he is miserable, eventually he will do something. Guys, especially guys with too much pride, have to make the first move. If he still feels hurt or scared, no matter how much of an immiture ass he is being, then he will just keep on being an ass until he calms down. Plus I dont think its bad for you to want him back, good luck getting him.


lier - February 14th, 2007 1:14 PM

thank you for your advice marcsmama you actully made me feel better. I like that I have someone to talk to that I feel is netural...I don't think my friends/family or his friends/family can be netural.