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I know this may seem weird is a huge understatement. This is very weird to say the least. Do you have a fetish for pregnant women or something??? This seems fricking crazy as hell to me.

\ give him a break. if someone has an interest in him let her contact him without being made tofeel dumb.

Why does he deserve a break? He's looking to date women on a pregnancy info site and to me that IS weird. I could see if this was a dating site but its not!!! I'm not trying to make him feel dumb but this isn't the place for dating or seeking out a pregnant female to date in my opinion.

Keith, I know you said you would like to experience "as much of the pregnancy process as possible, including birth", but, I have to ask, wouldn't it be so much better to find a woman--start a long term relationship based on love and mutual respect---and then decide to have a family together??? I know you can't have children but if you are don't care about the biological father (and you clearly don't) you can get a donor. Even if your intentions are good, this forum seems like an inappropriate place for you to be looking for a date. I mean, a lot of these ladies are in very tough positions and your "helpfulness" can be easily interpreted as taking advantage of the situation. B/C you are looking for a currently pregnant woman, I can see how sassychick and others can assume you have a fetish (or other equally disgusting intentions). Anyone is free to respond to your posting, but please ladies be wary!

Yes, Sassychick, it may seem weird and may not be a dating site. However, I am sincere and available to give support. Why is it when a guy is open to give support in such a situation, it's weird, unusual or he's after only one thing. What about all of you females? Just because you are female that makes you are the only ones able to give support. I don't think so. I've seen some of the other posts concerning dating and the guy don't want anything to do with me. What about all of the females at the abortion clinics that tell the ladies..It's not a baby,.it's just a blob. We can take care that. I'm just saying that there are guys out there, including myself, that are loving and caring and open to give support in situations like this. I didn't post my messages to be judged. I came here to be able to show that there are guys out there that are not like those that these ladies are seeking advice about. As far as me wanting a baby, my yearning for one is like that of a lady who is getting into her 30's and 40's and hasn't had one. She's listening to her "biological clock" ticking away. She has an option of getting a donor and not having to have a man. While on the other hand, I am a man, who's clock has run out or truth be known , never started, but yet, I still have the yearning for a family. I do not have the option of finding a donor. I need the whole package, including the donor. I am 43, 44 in September. My clock is running out as far aqs being able to have a family within a reasonable time frame where we have a good quality family time. If I were to have a bay at this time, I will be 61 when it graduates high school..I was married and 3 beautiful step-daughters, two of which graduated high school 2 weeks ago and their younger sister is 16 today. To this day, I still love as if they were my own. However, it's just not the same & cannot replace the bonding that a man and a woman have at the time of pregnancy and birth, along with the bonding with the baby.

Yes, Ginger6363, it would be much better. The problem I am finding is that the ladies my age already have all the children they want, don't want any at all or for one reason or another, can't have any. I am not necessarily looking for a date. I am trying to let the ladies in situations where they are without someone, for whatever the reason and would like some support, know that I am here and willing to be there for them. That's why I have only been posting in the "Single and Pregnant" forum. Some of these ladies are single and pregnant and scared because they are single for whatever the reason. If there is a better way to get my message out that not all guys are scum or weirdos or pervs, I'm open to suggestions.

I'm not saying that you’re not sincere and I never called you a weirdo or a perv or anything like that I just don't think this forum is the appropriate place for this. A lot of these single women are in bad situations and they seek the advice of other females on this forum because we are in a similar situation to theirs or we may have been in the past. I'm sure you can give advice and support as well but not from the same point of view as a woman. Also, like ginger said, your helpfulness can be interpreted the wrong way. You also seem very willing to meet with whom ever responds and relocate within a short time frame to be with a pregnant lady that at this point you can't possibly love already and probably don't even know all that well yet. Could you look for someone local in your area to possibly be able to have a true connection with before making this big step to move and have a longtime relationship and kid with someone your barely know. Have you ever thought about adopting a child to raise as your own. I didn't mean to offend you and I'm sorry if I did but I still don't think this is appropriate.

keith- please dont resond to any negative feed back you may get here. alot of people feed on it and all its going to do is get a big argument going and get you flustered. my advice- never respond to other people ignorance. im not single, but i see where your comming from. i understand your point of view. i am not so ignorant to think that a "meaningful" realtionship would never happen from a place like this. millions of people have found their spouses on the net. good luck to you. i hope you find what your looking for and i hope the lucky lady that needs you finds you. you sound like a stand up guy to me. your senerio of being the man who has the ticking biologic clock mad total sence to me. so, please dont respond to anyone who is questioning you. it wont get you anywhere- the comments will just get nastier and meaner. good luck keith~~jessica

I kinda think its sweet. A lot of women are in need of support. And besides i didnt read anywhere where he stated that he was gonna want to move in together right away. Why must people be so critical??? I do understand ginge where you come from on advising caution as I urge women to do the same. Keith I really hope you find the woman of your dreams. Ladies, just show caution. As well as you keith. You dont know who your gonna come in contact with. But hopefully *fingers crossed* that it is gonna all work out. But to both sides PRACTICE CAUTION.

Honestly i kinda laughed when I read your first post Keith, it is a little weird, lol. But really I agree with a couple of the other posters, you do seem sincere and sound like a nice enough guy. I hope you meet someone, regardless of where that might be. Good luck to you and I see how at your age (which is NOT old at all) that many of the women you would meet might have already had all the children they want. Good luck in finding a nice woman Keith who shares the same wants as you. I hope that it will happen for you.

I am sorry for this guy's situation, but this site is not the place. It's creepy.

billsgirl, if you’re calling me ignorant for my opinion then screw you. I'm entitled to my opinion as you are yours and I don't think I said anything that was hurtful or mean to this guy or to you, I simply expressed my opinion as I didn't think this was the appropriate site for this type of thing. If you don't like it I don't care.

i consider myself screwed.

and i never once singled you out.

That's why is said IF

I think it is sweet that you want to offer women support. But i also think what you've said is a bit full on. As a single mother to be I am very cautious about letting any new man into my life. If and when i do allow one in I want to be sure that he is the right one for me and my son. Also, allowing someone to watch you give birth is huge! I find it hard to comprehend that anyone would give you that oppurtunity after knowing you for maximum of 9 months. I can understand your situation and think it is very admirable that you are so caring, but i agree this is not the place for seeking a relationship. Also don't give up hope. I'm sure there is someone out there who wants a child but doesn't want to do it alone. As for getting the word out that not all guys are srum or pervs, i don't think you need to. I do not think there is anything wrong with men posting on this forums, i just don't think it should be used as a pick up place.

I dont think Jessica (billsgril) was trying to be rude. You did imply that he was weird. Re-read your posts. And try next time to not start confrontations. There seems to ba enough drama on this forum so we dont need more people trying to start fights. Jessica, There was nothing wrong with your post. But also just as you said dont listen to the ignorance of some people. Sassy chick I call them as I see them. I am sure you are a nice person. I just think that you need to watch what you say. Try compassion instead of being judgemental next time.