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let me sum it up for you. the next time any of us want some little fag to come in here to insult every single thing we do, we'll give you the first call. i find it amusing that you find fault in everything any woman can do. tell me, do you think you can find fault with me? i'm married to the perfect man. one who actually respects women and understands that we all make mistakes. i gripe at him to take out the trash and he does it and he gripes when i spend too much time worrying about loser assholes like you. you only wish you could be 1/1 000 000th the man my husband is. i'm sure you think that couples that argue won't last, but then again i doubt you've been in any "relationship" long enough to learn her name. you act like you're this metrosexual businessman who got himself snipped to ensure he doesn't bother anyone with a baby (which apparently kids are a bother to you). Reality: you're a 45 year old loser locked in his mother's basement. your b***s haven't dropped yet and you pee sitting down because you lack anything to pleasure yourself much less a woman. if you can't have children, then you should get a medal because i'll sleep better knowing your spawn won't ever roam this earth. get over yourself, you big nobody.

You said: let me sum it up for you. the next time any of us want some little fag to come in here to insult every single thing we do, we'll give you the first call.

I say: You really can't win an argument without insults, can you? How about facts? Logic? No... you'd rather defame my character with untrue characterizations. You accuse me of being a "big nobody" (see below), but at least I can spell "some" and know how to properly capitalize the first letter of each sentence.

You said: i find it amusing that you find fault in everything any woman can do.

I say: No, just women who complain that everything that happens to them is a man's fault. I have plenty of fulfilling relationships with women (including my mother, whom I just spoke with) but steer clear of those who want to drag me into the quicksand. I will anticipate your reply as "good, we don't want you". That's fine; if you met me in real life you might feel differently. A lot of women come up to me, but I guess they're all less intelligent than you.

You said: tell me, do you think you can find fault with me?

I say: Yes, you're a bitter individual who hates any time a man has an opinion that doesn't fit into your emotional view of the world.

You said: i'm married to the perfect man.

I say: I'd like to talk to him.

You said: one who actually respects women and understands that we all make mistakes.

I say: I've admitted I make mistakes, too, so how about we move to the next argument? Unlike some of those here, I take responsibility. You'll note I applauded the woman who actually cared about raising her child in a manner good for - the child! As to respecting women, I respect a lot of people, including a lot of women. What I don't do is respect an entire gender, race, or group. There are women who deserve respect, and those who don't, so I decide on a case by case basis. Feminists created the argument about how we should "respect women" because it basically means nobody can argue with any decision a woman makes, regardless of how irresponsible a decision it is. We should all bow down to women and be servants. I support an equal partnership, not men "respecting [all] women" when the reality is people like you don't "respect men". I don't give respect where it's not given.

You say: i gripe at him to take out the trash and he does it and he gripes when i spend too much time worrying about loser assholes like you.

I say: So you're a nag. And we've again determined that you can't win an argument without calling me names. Come down to my office and see if I'm a loser.

You say: you only wish you could be 1/1 000 000th the man my husband is.

I say: Yes, I spend my time wishing for nothing more.

You say: i'm sure you think that couples that argue won't last, but then again i doubt you've been in any "relationship" long enough to learn her name.

I say: I've already debunked this. I don't have sex with people I don't know. Of course, you'd then argue that because I haven't married every woman I've dated, I'm a playboy who "can't commit". And, yes, I don't believe arguing in a relationship is a good thing. People should be happy, rather than being in relationships because it's comfortable or they're too lazy to leave. If I have to argue with someone, it's not going to work. And any woman who doesn't like me for whatever reason is free to leave as well, because both people should be happy.

You said: you act like you're this metrosexual businessman

I say: Now you're getting better at playing guessing games.

You said: who got himself snipped to ensure he doesn't bother anyone with a baby (which apparently kids are a bother to you).

I say: That I don't bother myself with a baby or it with the things I have to do to be successful. Yes, a child wouldn't be the best thing in my life; you think that any man who doesn't want a child is a heathen. So be it. I don't dislike children; I have a baby cousin I spend time with and look forward to having nieces and nephews to hand out with. I don't have the capability to take care of a kid myself, so I don't do it for myself or for the betterment of the kid.

You said: you're a 45 year old loser locked in his mother's basement.

I say: I'm 20 years younger and live in a penthouse condo.

You said: your b***s haven't dropped yet and you pee sitting down because you lack anything to pleasure yourself much less a woman.

I say: More insults.

You said: if you can't have children, then you should get a medal because i'll sleep better knowing your spawn won't ever roam this earth.

I say: You're right; we need more progeny of women who sleep with guys on the first date and guys who troll bars look for easy hook-ups, and fewer kids resulting from people who have the resources to raise children and know that you have to devote 100% of your life to a child.

You said: get over yourself, you big nobody.

I say: Insults, insults, insults. It's getting old even mentioning how every other argument from you is an insult rather than a fact. I guess I'm a nobody. I guess most of us here are.

my god man. get a life. no need to hit me with a novel here.

no it doesn't mean anything under the law, but no one was trying to blame anyone. they knew they did wrong by getting drunk and getting into that situation. i know more about law than you know, little man, so don't assume. and what makes you think i don't read much? oh because you think i was raised by a single mom right? sorry, my parents are still together after 35 years. never been divorced. never had any ex-spouses. stick that in ur pipe and f*** it. no one was talking about having sex with children. just you, pervert. sex between two consenting adults is completely different. and no, reality doesn't get on my nerves. you trying to make a big show out of it by putting "Reality" before every line of bullshit you type is what's annoying. which do you think is better for a child? 2 parents that argue non stop and beat the shit out of each other or a loving mom who leaves that situation to raise a child in a loving household? 2 parents aren't always the perfect family environment. as much as i hate to agree with you, however, i do not agree with what your sister is doing. a child should not be raised on the streets homeless. but i am pro-life, so i wouldn't suggest abortion. it is not a form of birth control. had she been raped, that is probably the only time i would say that it should be considered. i made that generalisation about you because that's exactly what you did to everyone who posted in this topic. if you don't like your own medicine, fuck off. these ladies don't need your petty bullshit and i will verbally castrate you (what should have been done instead of leaving you with a teeny weeny) before i let you bash these women. for your information, i do not and have not ever slept with any man other than my husband. i don't need to tell anyone anything. i'm married. but once again, you'll never know what that's like. well, i have to say congrats on your living habits. however, i don't drink at all, don't smoke at all, have never done drugs. so if this is a competition which is what it seems you are making it to be, that one goes to me. wow, i guess i should be impressed on your iq. too bad i'm not. an iq only shows your capacity to retain knowledge and shows nothing of common sense. you have none, otherwise you wouldn't come in here insulting people. and no, i wouldn't make fun of you for it. if you had a problem that required therapy and you were man enough to seek treatment, that's nothing to be made fun of. frankly, i don't care, though. ok let me explain marriage, since apparently you know nothing about it. there are so many symbols in wedding ceremonies to represent the "joining of [a] couple". the lighting of a unity candle, the binding of hands. it is to show that when you get married, two people become one and live for each other. that is relying on someone. i don't expect you to know. no iq is going to teach you anything about that. only living it. i do know about the male birth control pill. it isn't out, however, and i doubt men will go for that. it has been in the making for some time now. i take it you're still young. i think if a man forces a woman to destroy a child she wanted, then he should have his d*** cut off. i'm not angry. i actually smile at the thought. i believe in karma. so you believe there are multiple "soulmates" for people. is that how you get the ladies into bed? you prey on a woman's feelings? "hey baby you're my soulmate. wanna get busy?" you know women think heavily with their heart. once again, i don't care if you've been in therapy. if you're not a therapist, no one gives a rip about what you've learned from your shrink. each person's experience is different. who said i wanted to be able to make mistakes without consequence? don't make assumptions. and, no sorry, i'm not a femenist. i don't believe in social abortion, which is pretty much what pro choice is to me. and what's wrong of not wanting to have sex before marriage? you don't know how much my husband and i make, so don't begin to imagine. yeah, you are still a loser. live with it. lol, i didn't misspell the word "some". i meant to type "sum". you know, "sum it up"? retard. i don't think my husband would waste his time to talk to you. he and i have our disagreements, but we work through things and i think you can't stand that you will never find that type of relationship. and now i've figured out that you are, indeed, a sexist. you call me a nag because i gripe at him for something, but if he does to me, nothing is thought of it. you are absolutely not worth anything. argument is not always fighting. i'm talking about disagreeing. if you leave a girl because she disagrees with you, then you are the one who is punishing yourself. no two people are the same. i don't think you're a heathen for being snipped. i believe you bragging about it is the problem. i guarantee you nobody but the women you're about to have sex with cares. the nobodies here are the people who have no other mission but to be rude to the people here. women come here to complain about men and men do it their way. we come here because we feel comforted by other women who have been through it and we do not ask to be criticised. of course we don't ask the other side of the story. that is what a man's friends are for. i insult you because you have no business in these boards. you come here where women (over a year ago, mind you) are talking about a problem that they had and you are not offering advice or support and that is what they are looking for. how about this. i've read your post. you are a waste of time and effort and hopefully no one else will bother posting so this one gets buried. all you have done is come in here insulting everything every woman has said. you are either gay, sexist, or have been raped by a woman and hate all women. as if anyone would want you. get off your high horse.

Ummmm ajh - I couldnt even be assed reading your novel - just skimmed it - and glad I didnt waste more then a minute of my life on those sorry posts!

Oh and ajh - if you have no intention of ever getting anyone pregnant, why are you even on this site? Doesnt that strike you as a little odd????

he's here to spread his 6 figure income knowledge lol.

In summary, Teddy, I have a JD, so if you're a lawyer, then perhaps we're equal or you know more from experience seeing that you're likely older than I am. I assume you don't read because you are a woman of child-bearing age and most don't read (a lot of dumb guys don't read either, but that's a different story). My reference to sex with children was an analogy, not literal, but you'll bend the truth on that one to make me look bad. So be it. As to agreeing with me, it wouldn't pain me to agree with you, and if you are what you say than I don't know why you're so mad because you are not any of the things I say. I will say that kids need two parents, and if the parents are ripping each others' heads off, maybe they should have spent more time together before they had kids. No, I don't know what marriage is like, but I don't want to know if it means getting nagged for not taking the garbage out. I live alone and my home is spotless because I keep it clean. If your husband nags you, shame on him. It goes both ways, although I see a lot more guys just going to the other room and getting drunk, vs. women who tend to nag. But no one should be nagging. Again, you keep thinking I am a "predator" preying on women; that's fine, except that you've read many times it's not true. You find it impossible to believe anyone who disagrees with anything YOU have to say couldn't care about a woman. I am not bragging about having a vasectomy, other to say that people who are responsible will take precautions to make sure undesirable results don't happen. I brought it up as an indication that people that are against having kids will take precautions, and those who are irresponsible will go without a condom and wonder what happened when they impregnate somebody. If the OP had their tubes tied, they wouldn't be in this predicament and no one could call them irresponsible. You mention that I'm a sexist because I don't complain about your husband being a nag (which I'd support you on), but you mention that only women can use this board and that men "do it their own way". Well, you'll call me a name for saying this, but maybe injecting somebody with logic would help. My older sister enables the younger sister that's pregnant and makes her think it's OK to be procreating with a deadbeat felon. And, no, I didn't insult everything every woman said; I agreed with more than one of them.

I'm literally laughing as I read this. I wasn't aware I had been raped by a woman. Although I'm sure you'd love that, just like you love calling me a loser, an a-hole, and countless other names. I don't call you names. But I actually have excellent debating skills, so I don't need to - it's a shame most women aren't logical creatures. That's not an insult, it's a fact. In some ways, that is a positivee thing as it adds a different dimension to relationships. As to those who said I wrote a book, you'll note that more than half of what I wrote consists of quotes from other posters who I was responding to. I'll depart now, but please keep in mind... if I did hate women as much as you say I do, maybe it's because a lot of them told me "nobody wants you" like you did, Teddy. Maybe you ought to look yourself in the mirror and wonder what all the guys you've rejected are doing now. I'm fortunate I have never been rejected nearly as much as most guys are, so I couldn't tell you.

Ummm I say it again ajh - why are you even here again?? haha.

WTF, don't you people read the dates on these posts!!! This one is over 2 years old.

ah, today is the day i choose to argue with this git. don't assume that i don't read because i'm of child bearing age. that means nothing. and makes no sense. like you see guys in their early to late 20s going to the library as opposed to a bar? yeah sorry, don't think so. those hangovers aren't from edgar allan poe. you claim you aren't sexist, yet spout out incorrect statistics. how many times do you see women duking it out because they get angry? not very many. men are less likely to think things through before they act. women are by far the more logical thinkers. but that is your opinion, as is this mine. once again, though, you could never measure up to the man my husband is. just because he says "hey babe, get off the pc and don't bother with that guy. let's watch a movie." doesn't mean he is shameful. and because i say "it's time to take out the trash" doesn't make me a nag. men forget and women remind. not all men do, but as i'm sure you know, everyone forgets sometimes. although i'm sure you'll say you never have and that you can walk on water. we say you write a book because you make the longest posts. not that you're literally writing a book, fool. i tell you that nobody would want you because your attitude, if presented when trying to pick up women, would only succeed in driving them away. if some guy had come up to me years ago telling me how women are nags for asking someone to do something and should get abortions because they shouldn't be having babies, i'd have told him to go get bent. if that is how you treat women and they still bed you, they're desperate. i have seen quite a few of the guys i have rejected in my life (i live in a small town. yay.) and they are deadbeats and i was able to see it before ever wasting my time on them. sorry to disappoint, but i'm nothing like the women you have commented on in this post. i simply defend because when someone is going through a hard time, they don't need someone criticising what they do. same as if there was a men's forum (who knows what you strange creatures do on the net) i wouldn't agree with a woman going into a sensitive post and verbally lashing at the men there. you have no business here. kindly log out and never come back.

who pissed in ajh's cheerios...thats what i want to know.

and why is he/she replying so vehemently to a post that is almost 2 years old? even eponine doesnt give a shit at this point.

i think his Metrosexual He Man Woman Hater Club had a night off and he needed somewhere to flex his clipped weenie.

Thought: I'm going to send all of my e-mails in this format today. Truth: I think it's fuckin hilarious. Question: Teddy what do you think? Reality: Anyone who has the time to do this has no life.

Opinion: this would be fun for anyone to try. Reality: it would get on anyone's nerves in a heartbeat. Reaction: Lol.