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Sad And Confused. : [ Need Advice.

2 posts on this thread and the last post was on February 25th, 2009 9:26 PM
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confusedgirll - February 19th, 2009 9:29 PM
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Ok. Well when i first told my ex that i thought i was pregnant, he freaked out. And told me if i am we're getting married, and his life is over. Then he continued to ask me questions about why i thought i was, and called some so called "nurse" about it. She didn't know ANYTHING about pregnancy, and he believed her. So we got in a big fight about that. And i stopped talking to him for a couple weeks.
Then last week he txted and called me, asking me if i'm pregnant. I told him i didn't know yet. He said he thinks i have some mental illness and i'm just saying i'm pregnant because i want to get him back. NOT TRUE. I really don't want anything to do with him!!! Is it bad if i don't tell him about the baby? I'm almost positive if i do, there's gonna be a bunch of legal stuff to go through, and i just want to have a happy life with my baby. Any advice?


clindholm - February 20th, 2009 12:17 PM

I think you already know that it is not right to keep the pregnancy from him but first things first...TAKE A TEST. If you are not yet late for your period, wait til then and take a hpt with fmu.
He does not sound like a real winner since he said that "we're getting married, and his life is over".
So IMO, I would take a test and let him know the result then take it from there. Good luck.


Kim123 - February 25th, 2009 9:26 PM

Hey. You really shouldn't keep something like this from him. It seems that alot of men are scared and their first instinct is to run away. Don't get your hopes up but you never know what a guys going to do until you put him to the test! He might come around and he might not. The father of my child has never seen our daughter but I made damn sure he was at least going to pay child support! I went through the legal stuff and it wasn't that big of a deal. You'll have a happy life I'm sure...but this part might not go that smooth...just stay strong and don't let him off easy lol Good luck!