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5 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 1st, 2008 12:44 PM
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prettyeyecc - June 15th, 2008 5:36 PM
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Well ladies i just got back from a wonderful cruise with my family.. while i was on the cruise got a vm from my soon to be father of my child.. he has been on this site reading my blogs.. guess he is that bored living with this other woman that is all he has to do is search the internet to check up on me... he now says he wants nothing to do with me... i was really thinkin of living the rest of my life with this man.. even though he has lied and cheated on me!!! he is not worried about it obviously b/c he has some redneck gullable chick to take care of him anyway... All i wanted was to make him happy and while i was so worried about making him happy i have put myself and my daughter to the side for him.. im not sure why he would be mad about what i wrote b/c all of the things i said here are true.. He knows he hasnt treated me w/ any respect or love, he knows he has spent his nights in bed with another woman in which he doesnt even want to be with.(all while i sit here thinkin he is mine). but this is the life he has chosen..he says i have gotten what i wanted now... i guess i wanted to be preg and alone (again) I doubt any of us really want this or sat up at nite dreaming to have a chld while the father runs around with other women.. when actually i did want a family and to be happy with him... hate to think about what could have been, but i guess now it is up to me and only me to do what i can to make MYSELF happy and put myself first.... I wish things were different but i shouldv'e seen the signs a long time ago... well i try to be strong for me and my new baby and hope he is man enough to be a good father.. the man i feel in love with had a big heart and seemed sincere... Can someone really fool you for this long, making you feel like things will be alright and you will be a family one day??? When really their alternative motives are just to lead you on for years?? Sucks to say but i guess ive been played... Hopefully everything will turn out okay, but guess i am going at this alone for sure now....

prettyeyecc - June 15th, 2008 8:37 PM

dont worry about posting to this blog...... will be changing my user name today!!

oct19bad - June 16th, 2008 11:32 AM

I am in the same position. Led on with false promises of marriage and family for 4 years and now betrayed and left alone to raise his baby. these men have NO honour and do not deserve the title of being called a man or father.


somegurl - June 17th, 2008 9:12 PM

man, I hate to admit this, but i read up on where my hubby is postin gonline :( it is pathetic. but i just want to know what hes up to. we are seperated and he doesnt want the kid. guess its called online stalking.
You have made me really think about it, and I am going to TRY and stop.
I hope things get better for you. I just dont get some men.



micsmms3 - August 12th, 2008 5:25 PM

Ladies, why would you want to have a man like this in your lives? Think of how crappy your whole life would be with these dumb guys whom treat you badly, why sign up for that? You don't have to! Honestly, you are better off being alone- and focusing on being a strong loving mom to your child. Reach out to your good friends and family for support, make the loosers pay their child support, and show your children a good example. Would you want your child treated badly by someone? Start thinking of the situation that way. You do not deserve to be treated badly, period! LOVE and take the best care of yourself!


single09 - September 1st, 2008 12:44 PM

My boyfriend did it for 6yrs, offered marrige the whole bit all the while f***ing anything with a pulse. It's hard to remind yourself that you are better off without him when you love someone and it will take time but watching your beutiful child that he will likely have little to due with will help you realize what a jerk he is.